How many times a week do you get some ?

[FLMountainMan]

I really wonder why the numbers for guys with girlfriends aren't higher, are you not counting right? I'm genuinely not trying to indirectly brad, but every girl I've been with, I'd always have at least one weekend day where we did it four or five times - two or three times in the morning, two or three times at night. With that, it's not too hard to hit seven or more with the rest of the days in the week. From what I've heard from my friends, that's a little high, but not very.

 

[Augusto86]

Originally Posted by FLMountainMan

I really wonder why the numbers for guys with girlfriends aren't higher, are you not counting right? I'm genuinely not trying to indirectly brad, but every girl I've been with, I'd always have at least one weekend day where we did it four or five times - two or three times in the morning, two or three times at night. With that, it's not too hard to hit seven or more with the rest of the days in the week. From what I've heard from my friends, that's a little high, but not very.

Well, I think it depends how long it takes. If the whole thing is, say, 10 minutes from beginning to end on average, that's an hour of sex total if you do it six times that day. Give or take. But if you take a little longer - and remember, each time takes longer - add extra foreplay, afterplay, commercial breaks etc...you might take 30 minutes to an hour per session, which is 3-6/hours. A lot of time.

But I agree in principle. I was surprised by some of the numbers, too.

 

[Nantucket Red]

*****cat is very good about keeping supply and demand in balance.

 

[Vintage Gent]

Originally Posted by antirabbit

Good poll,
Once married with kids, sex becomes a strange and complex activity.
For my situation, it seems after 10 years my wife has grown conservative and the activities of life and stress of our life seems to be a wall in making it happen more than 2-3 times a month.
For me, I have to focus on other things (like clothes, shoes, and my job), in order to stem my frustration.
to further complicate things, she often feels "off", like a cold that lasts a month, or some **** like that. What makes it worse, is she doesnt try to get or stay healthy.
So, I further with draw from even trying.
It really sucks.

"Experience, though noon auctoritee,
Were in this world, is right ynough for me
To speke of wo that is in mariage..."
- Chaucer, The Wif of Bath's Tale

 

[grimslade]

Surprisingly low answers given that it's a public poll.

 

[Augusto86]

Originally Posted by grimslade

Surprisingly low answers given that it's a public poll.

I don't think people realize when they vote. I didn't.

 

[amerikajinda]

oh crap! public pole!

truth be told I may have uh... overestimated a bit.

 

[DNW]

Originally Posted by FLMountainMan

I really wonder why the numbers for guys with girlfriends aren't higher, are you not counting right? I'm genuinely not trying to indirectly brad, but every girl I've been with, I'd always have at least one weekend day where we did it four or five times - two or three times in the morning, two or three times at night. With that, it's not too hard to hit seven or more with the rest of the days in the week. From what I've heard from my friends, that's a little high, but not very.
My gf gets tired after multiple Os in a single session.

So, it's difficult for her to go more than 2-3 sessions a day--even when we first started dating. A girl's gotta recover sometimes.

 

[West24]

with you or another guy?^

 

[tiger02]

It's been a weird ride--last summer was 5-7, then nothing for a few months, now it's 5 one week and 1 the next. This week is so far at 0 but should end at 2-4.

Tom

 

[Matt]

oh, is globetrotter passing through town?

 

[taxgenius]

Originally Posted by antirabbit

Well, it is if I think about my sex life....
Otherwise everything is amazing, the job is amazing, the kids are great, all sorts of good things, but sadly little to no sex life.
She really does not like to talk about it either.
Right now it seems like a downward spiral that does not have an end, just gets worse.
Not sure what to do. I am concerned that if it continues, I will really pull away from her in a permanent way.

At this point, what does she provide (i.e., what value does she bring to the home)?

 

[DNW]

Originally Posted by West24

with you or another guy?^
Don't project your own inadequacies...

 

[grimslade]

Originally Posted by amerikajinda

oh crap! public pole!

truth be told I may have uh... overestimated a bit.

That's the funniest thing I've ever seen you write, ninja.

I almost voted, but i thought it best to check first whether it was public.

 

[Dakota rube]

Originally Posted by Augusto86

...If the whole thing is, say, 10 minutes from beginning to end...
..you might take 30 minutes ...
Boys.
You're doing it all wrong.
Slow down, enjoy the ride.
Sex isn't a sprint.