jssdc
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Thank you for sharing this anecdote. I am a firm believer of "dress for the job you want, not the one you have." I mentioned I am 24, but I also should have mentioned that most of the people that work at my company have been at the company for 25+ years. The program I'm in recruits from top universities to bring young talent into the organization. When I see people who have accomplished more than me, I don't see them as superior, but more so as people who are just simply older than me.
In a place of business, I like to look professional. I feel that it promotes an image of responsibility, seriousness, and earnestness. I unlike some of the more senior people I don't have 30+ years of experience under my belt, so I feel that I am obligated to make up for it where ever possible.
Corporate work is subjective, particularly at management levels, and although many think that all that matters is the quality of your work- they are mistaken. Quality of work is a only a majority part, and for those who's work is easily quantifiable it is just as easily outsourced.
Why try to fit in, when you're born to stand out?
I share archetypal's troll suspicions, but assuming that your posts are genuine then you are supplying loads of supporting evidence for my hypothesis that your colleagues are giving you **** for your personality and not for your dress.
I am a management consultant by trade and so my work involves a lot of senior stakeholder contact with client executives, but also requires the support and cooperation of people at multiple levels in the organization. As a consultant, there's a lot of negative stereotypes that you carry with you (you know, smarty-pants hot-shot overpaid sort of thing). I imagine that recruits for junior rotational programs bring much of the same baggage. Accepted best practice is to dress in a way that makes your client comfortable, however that may be, but in reality what you're attempting to do is present a certain demeanor of which your dress is simply a component. Much more important is the way that you conduct yourself and the way that you treat people, both junior and senior.
I've seen Partners pull analysts (most of whom, btw, have more or less identical resumes to rotational program types) off of engagements for being nasty to receptionists at the client, and I've always respected them more for it. In your first post you said something about "dressing like a gentlemen." Gentlemen do not dress in a particular way, but they do behave in particular ways - ways in which it appears you do not.