woofmang
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I know the feeling...It's been one of those weeks and it's only Tuesday...
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I know the feeling...It's been one of those weeks and it's only Tuesday...
I know the feeling...
As soon as she leaves the room, go in there and flex the soles very firmly to loosen them up. I bet that will make a difference, and maybe make sure she doesn't complain they are stiff when she first starts walking. I mean, you HAVE invaded her closet and all already, might as well go for broke!Last night went like this when my wife got home...
Me: Your boots came back from repair.
Wife: Why-TF are you going into my closet?
Me: Remember, your favorite boots that you wore through the sole and almost damaged the welt so I said I was going to send them out for repair?
Wife: No. Again, Why-TF are you going into my closet?
Me: Again, do you not remember we had an entire conversation about this a few weeks ago and I wanted to get them fixed before you start wearing them in the Fall now that you are back at work?
Wife: No.
Me: Well, they upgraded them with new leather soles, GTO sole protectors, and kept everything black just like you wanted them. They should last several more years.
Wife: They look nice.
Me: Great.
Wife: (tries them on) They do not fit, they are too tight. You ruined them.
Me: I did not ruin them. Is it vertically tight or horizontally tight?
Wife: They are just tight.
Me: Do you mean stiff like a new shoe that needs to be broken-in?
Wife: How the heck do I know, did you suddenly become a shoe expert?
Me: Well, I did watch a bunch of YouTube videos about shoes during the initial lock down.
Wife: Not funny.
Me: Give them a few days and see if they loosen up after you wear them. It's like you have a new pair of boots that need to be broken-in. And, I already looked online and will order you a new pair if these really do not work anymore (I actually did this before I sent them out for repair).
Wife: I'll wear them on Friday and we'll see what happens. Please just do not ever mess with my shoes without asking me first.
Me: I did, we had a whole conversation about it. Next time do you need me to have you sign a waiver?
Wife: Really not funny. What's for dinner?
Me: Salad.
Wife: Shoot me now.
In fairness, she is a HS principal who has been working 12 hour days seven days a week since March to help get her school open so she is exhausted all the time. In the past 7 months, she has only had 4 actual days off.
As soon as she leaves the room, go in there and flex the soles very firmly to loosen them up. I bet that will make a difference, and maybe make sure she doesn't complain they are stiff when she first starts walking. I mean, you HAVE invaded her closet and all already, might as well go for broke!
As soon as she leaves the room, go in there and flex the soles very firmly to loosen them up. I bet that will make a difference, and maybe make sure she doesn't complain they are stiff when she first starts walking. I mean, you HAVE invaded her closet and all already, might as well go for broke!
I genuinely do flex my soles before I put shoes into rotation; also reduces the early on excessive sole toe tip wear.29 years we have known each other.
27 years a couple.
19 years married.
This is easy stuff and we get along great but she has had a difficult few months so I just go with the flow.
We were laughing through most of the conversation about her boots.
My guess is they were an original leather sole worn down to almost nothing and now she has a newer thicker leather sole with GTO rubber sole protectors on top so it is going to take some time to loosen up but I'll do some flexing before Friday!
Absolutely stunning.Today's personalized trunk show delivery, chili/antique Cambridge w/double JR. Laces swapped for a princely $4 or so. Turned out better than I'd even hoped. One down, one to go...
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IMHO leather grain and a natural welt does not equal "formal". I would personally consider those a "casual" boot that would not be worn with formal/business attire.
Similarly, I would not consider that all black HM boot "formal".
Or did I miss the memo on what constitutes a formal boot?
29 years we have known each other.
27 years a couple.
19 years married.
This is easy stuff and we get along great but she has had a difficult few months so I just go with the flow.
We were laughing through most of the conversation about her boots.
My guess is they were an original leather sole worn down to almost nothing and now she has a newer thicker leather sole with GTO rubber sole protectors on top so it is going to take some time to loosen up but I'll do some flexing before Friday!
I've noticed that women really don't know much about shoes in general. This is because ladies shoes are made like crap compared to men's shoes. Women's boots can be quite well made, but women don't realize that once you get something recrafted you'll have to break them in some. They aren't "ruined" - they just need to be worn again. Your foot has to mold it once more and the leather has to break down a bit.
I am not saying this is some sort of gender-based thing inherently, but it is because of style differences. Women wear shoes that aren't like what men wear.
Your wife’s boots look great!