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I have been at work since 5:30 this morning and I won't get out until after 6. Then I have a long overdo haircut. I will get home probably around 8:30 and I have to be at work around 5:30 again tomorrow morning. Life is hard.
Find her someone to talk to. Most importantly, this person shouldn't be you. If its you, then its just her husband harping on her over and over again. Just keep up with the reinforcement (love you, you're doing great, that sort of ****) and get her into a therapist. Stats show that its often as beneficial as taking pills. See if you can get any recommendations from friends and family. Also, have her hit the GP and get a physical. Check out the blood levels and **** like that.
a little wife problems
my wife seems to be depressed. I think hitting 40, and having the twins starting school, is hitting her now. she is having trouble getting her housework done, she has little energy, she is spending her days playing vidio games and facebook/UrbanMom. which means that either I ahve to do my work and hers, or let the house become a pigsty. but more than that, I am worried about her happiness. both of her parents suffered from depression, but they also had sucky lives, I didn't think of this as a hereditary thing, I was thinking that they were brought up poorly and fucked up their lives.
so, I am not sure what to do. pushing her to talk to her GP and find a therapist, or just trying to push her to get back to routine. anyway, not happy.
Got an email in the morning as im getting ready for work saying I'm to be staffed in Denver again for a three week mini project.
GT, sorry to hear about the wife problem. Get her to have her thyroid and serum vitamin D checked if nothing else.
Frog, Lincoln freed the slaves. No contract can stop you from leaving (although it might stop you from doing certain things upon departure.)
GT, sorry to hear about the wife problem. Get her to have her thyroid and serum vitamin D checked if nothing else.
GT, sorry to hear about the wife problem. Get her to have her thyroid and serum vitamin D checked if nothing else.
reading down, I see your situation is very differnt form mine. **** him
thanks - a little more information - my wife was a pretty successful academic, she was a curator in a well regarded museum, and an adjuct proffessor in two universities. when my son was born, 10 years ago, she went back to work and then decided that she didn't want to work she wanted to stay with him. it's been a good arrangement. over the past 5 years she's tried a lot of stuff as "part time businesses" - cake decorating and making baked goods. she's really good at it, and gets a lot of recognition, but there's no money in it.
she's also tought a bunch of classes for various organizations, and loved it and got good response, but having been out of academia for 10 years she isn't going to get a job in a good universtiy, and having tought at a university, she doesn't want to teach at a community college.
so, there we are.
a month ago, she got all weepy over wanting to get a new kitchen - we live in an apartment, which really makes sense to us. I said, "well, we could move to a house, but if we do this we would have to sacrifice this and this, do you want to?" and we considered it. a couple of days latter the whole kitchen issue was forgotten. unfortunatly, that kind of thing has happned a dozen times over the past 2 years.
She is obviously looking for a challenge to overcome the depressed state she has fallen into.
It is always difficult to overcome a loss of confidence ,social status,intellectual stimulation for a successful academic..
She is feeling a deep sense of identity loss and she must be feeling useless..
I'm suffering for severe depression all my life and I'm the same...
I need to move , buy a new house ,a chimney, a new suit to try to exorcize the pain...
It only works for a few days, months or years...
basically - and I am really good at finding rational practical solutions, which aren't the thing here. the solution is less practical here, more emotional
Globe, I hope the appointment helps to get to the bottom of this. All the best....thanks - I actually made her set an oppointment today to see her GP, she had a thyroid imbalance in the past, and it's been under control for a few years, but things change, I was thinking that it might be the thyroid. thanks