How do you uninvite someone's kids from a wedding?

[NorCal]

Originally Posted by jgold47

6. and finally. I hate little kids. this is not one of those I will never have kids things, I just dont like little kids. I want to have a kid, give it away, and then get it back when its 5 or 6. Or potty trained. Something along those lines.

Dude.... little kids are amazing.

 

[Chico2007]

Originally Posted by NorCal

Dude.... little kids are amazing.

I love my kids to death, but like someone else stated, when my wife and I get an invitation to a wedding or event that does not involve kids, I'm doing cartwheels!

J- You're doing the right thing. You invited that guy and his wife..not him, his wife, kids, dog etc. If he doesn't get it ...be happy if he doesn't attend. Probably should have went with your instincts/hesitation on inviting him anyway.

 

[jgold47]

Originally Posted by NorCal

Dude.... little kids are amazing.

Everyone thinks their little kids are amazing. the reality is that everyone hates your kids but you. Thats ok, I aint mad atcha, just dont bring them to the wedding.


And thanks for the congrats. its 60 days out, so I'm starting to get nervous.

the f'd up think is not that I am nervous about being married (we've been living together for 2.5 years and engaged for one so its not a huge change), but about the logistics of the actual wedding....

 

[NorCal]

Originally Posted by jgold47

Everyone thinks their little kids are amazing. the reality is that everyone hates your kids but you.
ummmm no. I said kids are amazing not my kids only (although they are), and no, not every body hates kids. I have strangers coming up and asking to hold my kid, smiling at her, complimenting her. Lots of folks love kids. But whatever. Enjoy the weeding and remember that whatever happens, no matter how well or how poorly it goes, you will still end up married at the end of the ay and that is what it is really all about.

 

[ter1413]

Originally Posted by jgold47

Everyone thinks their little kids are amazing. the reality is that everyone hates your kids but you. Thats ok, I aint mad atcha, just dont bring them to the wedding.


And thanks for the congrats. its 60 days out, so I'm starting to get nervous.

the f'd up think is not that I am nervous about being married (we've been living together for 2.5 years and engaged for one so its not a huge change), but about the logistics of the actual wedding....


You better start that "what to wear to my wedding thread!"
Kids are amazing....But some events(not your own) are for adults. I agree that it is on the parent to make sure their kids behave, but I would not wnat to be responsible for grown ups getting tipsy and loud music, dancing, etc and a young child tring to doze off.
A wedding(for the most part) is GROWN PEOPLE BIZNESS!