FidelCashflow
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If you want to help her, take the hard line and tell her to get her life together before its too late.
It sounds like he's done that for years with no success. You can't really force people to change drastically unless you change their circumstances drastically. He could yell at her until he's blue in the face, but if she goes home, goes to sleep, and wakes up the next morning in the exact same place she was in yesterday morning, it's highly unlikely she'll change anything.