sometimes you need to rap a guy on the nose for him to pay attention.
ok, I didn't want to pile on about the weight loss, but then I noticed that you are getting married.
after I got married, I put on something in the niehgborhood of 150 pounds over 10 years. now I am loosing them. it is a slow and painful process. be very careful - it will be very easy to stay in, sit on the couch and have some ice cream. it will creep up on you.
control it now or you will be sorry. good luck
one of the greatest hobbies i have. so sad.