I've been having a little trouble finding the right size loafers. Everything seems to be slightly too big or slightly too small, regardless of brand or last. It looks like the best size for me is a 10.25 UK/44.25 EU (which doesn't exist). I know fit is extremely important for loafers. So my question is: Do you think it's better to go small and use shoe stretchers or go big and use a tongue pad? ty