Dating call back question…

[itsstillmatt]

Originally Posted by vaclava krishna

Do you want, a 2nd professional option ?
V., you are a puzzle, wrapped in an enema, on this thread.

 

[dopey]

Originally Posted by vaclava krishna

Don't get so testies, because of the, constipation.

Originally Posted by imageWIS

No idea what you are talking about.

Jon.

Originally Posted by vaclava krishna

You spoke previous about, the lack of movement, so the prognosis, didn't arrive , so difficultly.

Originally Posted by imageWIS

?

Jon.

Originally Posted by vaclava krishna

Do you want, a 2nd professional option ?

Some interactions are just not meant to be. I think that each of you would you would find Eliza a more compatible conversationalist.

 

[lightsky]

Originally Posted by imageWIS

Whether to call her or not is still stewing in my brain…

forget about the relationship for now. you're putting too much pressure on her and yourself. if you enjoyed being with her, then spend some time together over the next 3 wks. just try to have fun. if it happens to develop further, then consider it a bonus.

don't be so serious. you'll get more by trying less.

Yes, I’m Jewish, why?

Jon.

cause she's conservative jewish and i thought if you were not that might be an issue for her, especially as it seemed on the surface that you might be of german descent and from south america to boot. i can see how german + south america can have bad connotations for some.

 

[imageWIS]

Originally Posted by lightsky

forget about the relationship for now. you're putting too much pressure on her and yourself. if you enjoyed being with her, then spend some time together over the next 3 wks. just try to have fun. if it happens to develop further, then consider it a bonus.

don't be so serious. you'll get more by trying less.




cause she's conservative jewish and i thought if you were not that might be an issue for her, especially as it seemed on the surface that you might be of german descent and from south america to boot. i can see how german + south america can have bad connotations for some.

Well, I haven't called her yet. I'm going wait tonight because I might see my friend and I'll see if I can get some info.

Jon.

 

[contactme_11]

So what happened?

 

[imageWIS]

Originally Posted by contactme_11

So what happened?

Nothing at all. I never called, she never called. I might call sometime this week to say ‘hey’, I might not.

Jon.

 

[Ambulance Chaser]

Did you call her?

 

[imageWIS]

Originally Posted by Ambulance Chaser

Did you call her?

Nope. Actually she called me on Tuesday, and she was like "you didn't call over the weekend" and she apologized for the previous conversation, we might do something next week (she was busy this weekend and so was I).

I'm not holding my breath, I have a house party to go to tonight, so...let the fun begin!

Jon.

 

[vaclava krishna]

Originally Posted by imageWIS

I'm not holding my breath, I have a house party to go to tonight, so...let the fun begin!

Jon.



Perhaps you should take, some fiber, before.

 

[Nantucket Red]

Originally Posted by vaclava krishna

Perhaps you should take, some fiber, before.

Perhaps, he will have, a movement.

 

[Get Smart]

Originally Posted by Nantucket Red

Perhaps, he will have, a movement.

I refer to mine as, a symphony

 

[why]

Lawyerdad speaketh the troof.

 

[texas_jack]

Lots of great old posters in this thread

 

[Ambulance Chaser]



Oy!! Please, I urge you for your own benefit and sanity to let it go. Pretend she does not nor has ever existed. No calling back, no sunday ****, no friend's sister, nada. She told you she's not interested. Don't torture yourself.


I'll let you in on a little secret: women are usually just as confused about these things as men but our brains are wired to react very differently. Men tend to focus in a singular manner on one specific goal at a time i.e. I must find out if this is the right girl for me and take her out, get laid, get married, have babies... Women OTOH, are much better at multi-tasking and are usually more tolerant of ambiguity. They can easily have many things going on at once and so are more likely to keep baiting you without rejecting you outright while they take their time to figure out whether they want you or what their chances of finding someone better are.


As men, our our best defense is not to play into their uncertainty and to remain clear, direct and relatively unambiguous i.e. I am interested in you and I told you that but I am not interested in being friends or waiting around while you figure out whether you want more. Call me back when you're ready and maybe I'll be around, maybe not, we'll see. In the meantime, move on to the next kill. Our ancestors didn't survive on this earth by chasing after prey that got away. Conserve your energies (and your sanity) by stalking the next one if you missed your chance (pardon the hunting analogy and please don't take that literally) and you will eventually get your kill.

This is the most insightful observation about women that has ever been posted on StyleForum. It unfortunately explains a lot about my life.

 

[Svenn]



they take their time to figure out whether they want you or what their chances of finding someone better are.

Love is when both parties think the other is out of their league.