ProfessorShak
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A previous thread discussed dressing well even outside of work. While discussing that with my wife another issue came out that touches on something deeper, a display status.
To me, regardless of how much money you have or what you're background is, being appropriatley dressed and well mannered is inexcuseable. Clothes should fit and flatter you and you can still express your unique personallity. You shouldn't lower your standards just to fit in and that includes behavior.
Not to get into details but my family sees me as a bit pretentious by the way I act and dress. Even wearing a sport jacket and jeans is considered "dressed up" I was raised in NYC and learned a lot while working at prestigious country clubs and dining halls. My cultural background isn't quite the same, and while I love them they act and dress somewhat primative. Me behaving and dressing the way I do apparantly insults them and their ways, making it seem as if I'm better than them, which isn't my intention.
So what does one do when it seems that the community you're brought up in doesn't fit with your personality. I know there is plenty of this going around but I personally don't know many who could guide me in this.
To me, regardless of how much money you have or what you're background is, being appropriatley dressed and well mannered is inexcuseable. Clothes should fit and flatter you and you can still express your unique personallity. You shouldn't lower your standards just to fit in and that includes behavior.
Not to get into details but my family sees me as a bit pretentious by the way I act and dress. Even wearing a sport jacket and jeans is considered "dressed up" I was raised in NYC and learned a lot while working at prestigious country clubs and dining halls. My cultural background isn't quite the same, and while I love them they act and dress somewhat primative. Me behaving and dressing the way I do apparantly insults them and their ways, making it seem as if I'm better than them, which isn't my intention.
So what does one do when it seems that the community you're brought up in doesn't fit with your personality. I know there is plenty of this going around but I personally don't know many who could guide me in this.