Brennus
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They're my family; they love me and I love them. They're also quite proud of me, given I'm the one who has reached a relative level of success that most of my family hasn't. Every little joke I get for being the smart one, or the dressed-up one, comes bundled with the fact that they're really proud of what I've done. Every time a member of that side of the family introduces me to someone, they include something about my accomplishments, and it makes me feel great.
A lot of my family behave like this as well. Most of my family are hippies who still live and dress like it is 1964. They make a bit of fun of me but underneath it is a tone of warmth,love and proudness.
however that is my family. Is it really that hard to believe that not all families or people are like that?
I would say there are at least as many people who act the way the OP suggests his family does as there are people who act like mine.
imho there are to many sneers directed at the OP suggesting it is his behavior that is wrong instead of the behavior of some of his family.