Any of you ever get blatantly rejected?

[Henry Boogers]

Originally Posted by oroy38

+1. Say something crude and you're only showing that you're letting her sour attitude get to you.

Ya, but I'm married. They're all getting to me.

 

[oroy38]

Hahaha, I've got a while to go my friend. I'm young, I still have options. I don't have that disease...Onegina.

 

[Tardek]

Originally Posted by mkarim

Originally Posted by thetieguy

I asked a girl one time"Don't i know you from somewhere?" and she said"Yes, thats whi I dont go there anymore.' It still hurts me till this day.

You should have laughed and said "Now THAT's one I have never heard. Made my day! By the way, I am ___".

You are painful.

 

[armorarmylt]

let it goooooooo,........ like someone else said, just read through the lines. The way i see it, if a woman doesnt receive ure advances, efff her, dont waste your time and money on someone who is a total snob or *****,,,,, women outnumber men in every county, state, country, school.... watever, there are more chicks than guys.......i have cousins like that, they think theyre the shyt(even though theyre not) and theyre still single in their 30's and miserable......

 

[Cavalier]

Persistance pays off. Last night I met a girl, made her fall in love with me, traded numbers at bar close 2:30-- and was getting a text asking me what I was doing by 3

 

[oroy38]

Originally Posted by armorarmylt

let it goooooooo,........ like someone else said, just read through the lines. The way i see it, if a woman doesnt receive ure advances, efff her, dont waste your time and money on someone who is a total snob or *****,,,,, women outnumber men in every county, state, country, school.... watever, there are more chicks than guys.......i have cousins like that, they think theyre the shyt(even though theyre not) and theyre still single in their 30's and miserable......

I wouldn't take it that way. If a woman turns you down, she simply isn't looking for a person like you at that particular time in her life. Don't take it as a personal offense, it's just that her preferences may not be in line with what you have to offer at the time.

 

[alessandro44]

I've been friends with this girl at work and I finally made a move recently even though I was pretty sure she was dating someone. She told me that for now she just wants to have my friendship so could become closer that way. What to do?

 

[RetroFlow]

Thought i was over it... but it just hit me again today. I said, man that ***** is cold. But im cool with it now. Seeing her again will be kinda awkward.

 

[RyJ Maduro]

This weekend.

 

[oroy38]

Originally Posted by alessandro44

I've been friends with this girl at work and I finally made a move recently even though I was pretty sure she was dating someone. She told me that for now she just wants to have my friendship so could become closer that way. What to do?

The friend category is a precarious position to be in. Avoid it if possible. If you're already in it, then try to get out as soon as you can. The longer you're in the friend category, the further your chances with that girl wither. Make your intentions clear without being too forward (don't give her cause for a sexual harassment lawsuit).

 

[willpower]

Don't date girls you work with. Nothing more awkward than having to see them after you break up. Instead, use them to introduce you to other girls. Befriend them and hit some bars after work. Other girls will be naturally attracted to you because you're with other females.

 

[oroy38]

Originally Posted by willpower

Don't date girls you work with. Nothing more awkward than having to see them after you break up. Instead, use them to introduce you to other girls. Befriend them and hit some bars after work. Other girls will be naturally attracted to you because you're with other females.

I swear to god I saw that on an episode of Manswers.

 

[Night Owl]

Originally Posted by Henry Boogers

No, this would not have ended well. If she was that direct the first pitch you don't want to lob another one down the pipe. Instead I would have tried:

"is that what it was? I'm glad I asked because I had heard they kicked you out for sucking off homeless guys in the ladies room. I'll spread the word."

Were you rejected by this woman?

 

[clayton]

Originally Posted by oroy38

The friend category is a precarious position to be in. Avoid it if possible. If you're already in it, then try to get out as soon as you can. The longer you're in the friend category, the further your chances with that girl wither.

true! you don't want to end up being her all lifetime best friend. that may be nice, but not what was originally intended

 

[jgold47]

I told a girl I worked with that I really had a thing for her right after I left the job, and did the whole its too bad I am moving otherwise it could have been something dont you think, and she was basically like WTF are you talking about, I would never have dated you. Sounds terrible, but honestly, I was not the only person who knew us who thought we had something there. She was cool about it, but it was definately a wtf rejection!