Any of you ever get blatantly rejected?

[Cavalier]

I always hit on random girls at bars, so I do get rejected countless times-- especially with how forward I am

I have heard it all, from boyfriends to girlfriends to "no cell phone"

If I was talking to a girl, and it wasn't at a bar, I would probably feel pretty bad getting rejected

 

[oroy38]

The age old adage "Nice Shoes, Let's ****" comes to mind

 

[ZackyBoy]

I am socially marsupialed so no, I don't get rejected because I don't try.

 

[LA Guy]

Originally Posted by Cavalier

I always hit on random girls at bars, so I do get rejected countless times-- especially with how forward I am

I have heard it all, from boyfriends to girlfriends to "no cell phone"

You remind me of a friend who would, literally, hit on every girl in the place (and not just bars). One time, he was hittin on two, maybe three girls at the same time. The man was a maniac. His success ratio was really, really low, as might be expected, but batting 0.001 is okay if you hit on 2000 girls a night.

 

[mkarim]

Originally Posted by RetroFlow

Long story short. Met a girl, asked for her number. Was completely ignored. Thing is, I will try to get it again, only this time I will do it in person.

You probably did not build a connection with her.

 

[mkarim]

Originally Posted by oroy38

It's not only a matter of dignity, but of reputation. Girls talk, and word spreads fast about the guy who just wouldn't take a hint and move on.

+10,000.

This also happens after a breakup...

 

[mkarim]

Originally Posted by thetieguy

I asked a girl one time"Don't i know you from somewhere?" and she said"Yes, thats whi I dont go there anymore.' It still hurts me till this day.

You should have laughed and said "Now THAT's one I have never heard. Made my day! By the way, I am ___".

 

[romafan]

Originally Posted by RetroFlow

Long story short. Met a girl, asked for her number. Was completely ignored. Thing is, I will try to get it again, only this time I will do it in person.

How did you do it the first time?

 

[crazyquik]

Originally Posted by crazyquik

You tell me:

On a date with a girl, we had gone out on a few. Were talking about her roomie, who had broken up with the BF, but then gotten back together. My Date said they were back together again, it was "official." I said "well, is her status on Facebook still 'Single' or 'In A Relationship', because it's not "official" unless it's on Facebook."

Date said "no, you can be "official" but not have it on Facebook yet."

Date ends with our tongues in each others mouths

Check Facebook the next day and see that Date's status is now "In A Relationship." Not with me.

Was that blatant rejection, or something else?


Was this a blatant rejection or being dumped?

 

[tagutcow]

Originally Posted by Jumbie

Buy her a ring.

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[Henry Boogers]

Originally Posted by mkarim

You should have laughed and said "Now THAT's one I have never heard. Made my day! By the way, I am ___".

No, this would not have ended well. If she was that direct the first pitch you don't want to lob another one down the pipe. Instead I would have tried:

"is that what it was? I'm glad I asked because I had heard they kicked you out for sucking off homeless guys in the ladies room. I'll spread the word."

 

[AR_Six]

^No, see, hers was clever and this is just crude. Say that and you're compounding the humiliation.

 

[Henry Boogers]

Originally Posted by JD_May

^No, see, hers was clever and this is just crude. Say that and you're compounding the humiliation.

You're missing the point that both are mean spirited. Her thing may be being clever and mine is being a douche. Our interaction reflects this and is also why she would have turned me down.

 

[unexpected]

if a girl likes you, she will want to give you her number. You tried and she did not reply, ergo she does not like you.

Also, the part where you say "next time I will ask in person" creeps me out. Did you meet this girl online? Did you ask her over the internet? Man up and grow a pair.

 

[oroy38]

Originally Posted by JD_May

^No, see, hers was clever and this is just crude. Say that and you're compounding the humiliation.

+1. Say something crude and you're only showing that you're letting her sour attitude get to you.