kammerer66
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Seems like he's insinuating racism to me.
He may feel this way. Even if the manager was entirely reasonable, it is easy to assume ill intentions.
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Seems like he's insinuating racism to me.
it very well could be an underlying factor.........let's not dismiss it.Seems like he's insinuating racism to me.
it very well could be an underlying factor.........let's not dismiss it.
However, there must be some reason for why they did not accommodate him further - we have yet to hear if SM gave any official reasoning for their decision (unless I missed it?).
This thread has quickly devolved into parsing out different meanings from my post. I understand that folks here think I'm being unreasonable with my ask of the store and that's fine, plenty of you have voiced a dissenting opinion. I would think this forum is still a place that people can talk about their experiences at a store without someone bringing up an almost 5-year-old post and attacking their character. I don't want to get into all the times I have felt dismissed at the store, but for example this was just last week when I was trying to do the return - an associate was helping me and then immediately dropped like a hot potato when a middle-aged WASPY lady walked in and the associate then chatted with her for a good 5 -10 mins with me standing right next to them waiting (before turning back to me) I felt like I was invisible…
I understand I’m at a loss here with the shoes and have made peace with that fact. I’m not going to engage this thread anymore, but here’s a thought- its OK to listen when a person of color tells you about their experience. You don’t have to dismiss his/her concerns outright. My post here is not going to hurt a multimillion dollar company, they will be just fine.
Notice that most of us have spoken in support of you and the validity of your story. You’ve got the right to ignore our support but let me repeat: Thanks for sharing your experience and warning me away from Sid Mashburn. I owe you for your courage.This thread has quickly devolved into parsing out different meanings from my post. I understand that folks here think I'm being unreasonable with my ask of the store and that's fine, plenty of you have voiced a dissenting opinion. I would think this forum is still a place that people can talk about their experiences at a store without someone bringing up an almost 5-year-old post and attacking their character. I don't want to get into all the times I have felt dismissed at the store, but for example this was just last week when I was trying to do the return - an associate was helping me and then immediately dropped like a hot potato when a middle-aged WASPY lady walked in and the associate then chatted with her for a good 5 -10 mins with me standing right next to them waiting (before turning back to me) I felt like I was invisible…
I understand I’m at a loss here with the shoes and have made peace with that fact. I’m not going to engage this thread anymore, but here’s a thought- its OK to listen when a person of color tells you about their experience. You don’t have to dismiss his/her concerns outright. My post here is not going to hurt a multimillion dollar company, they will be just fine.
Notice that most of us have spoken in support of you and the validity of your story. You’ve got the right to ignore our support but let me repeat: Thanks for sharing your experience and warning me away from Sid Mashburn.
I don't want to get into all the times I have felt dismissed at the store, but for example this was just last week when I was trying to do the return - an associate was helping me and then immediately dropped like a hot potato when a middle-aged WASPY lady walked in and the associate then chatted with her for a good 5 -10 mins with me standing right next to them waiting (before turning back to me) I felt like I was invisible…
I understand I’m at a loss here with the shoes and have made peace with that fact. I’m not going to engage this thread anymore, but here’s a thought- its OK to listen when a person of color tells you about their experience. You don’t have to dismiss his/her concerns outright. My post here is not going to hurt a multimillion dollar company, they will be just fine.
This is good because I had plans to visit the Georgetown store.Dear Sir,
I hope this finds you well.
We aim to exceed expectations, and no doubt this time we've fallen short. I'm so sorry your experience with us was not a great one. Although it was difficult to read, I truly appreciate you taking the time to offer us feedback.
I am very sorry to hear about the damage on your jacket. We are always very willing to look after outside alterations and to hear you have left unhappy is very disappointing. I would really like to see your jacket and see what we can do to resolve this. Additionally, it’s even more disappointing that you are not happy with the alterations on the suit you purchased from us. All your alterations were done in house and our expectations are that everyone walks out with the perfectly tailored suit and this is what we would like for you.
Your experience was not in line with our service offering, and we're very sorry. We guarantee our products. If you are not well pleased, we’ll make it right. We'd love the opportunity to make things right, starting by taking care of your Mashburn suit. If you'll give us a chance, we'd like to come to you to have it fitted, and deliver it back to you, finished within the week.
Please reach out to me directly at 404-350-7135, or at patrick.oshea@sidmashburn. I hope we have the opportunity to make amends for your first visit.
Kind Regards,
Patrick O’Shea
Store Director
^If Allen Edmonds and Nordstrom take back shoes after a customer wears them, then they would be very unusual exceptions. Most companies, including luxury ones, will not take back a show after it's been worn, even once.
The best way to test a new pair of shoes is to wear them on carpet for a bit. Wearing them out all day will not only abrade the sole but set a crease line in the uppers and start an impression of your foot in the insole and/or cork.
It's possible that these shoes will break in and be comfortable. A new pair should be expected to be a little painful if worn all day on the first go. People here generally recommend wearing them a couple hours the first time, then working your way to a whole day.