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My girlfriend and I share a condo. Sometimes her friend will stay over on weekdays and sleep on the couch. I dont like this but I concede. My girlfriend's friend did this last night and I just found out this morning that the friend does not work today. My girlfriend and I do, so she would be staying in my home all day long unsupervised.
This makes me extremely uncomfortable. If my girlfriend doesn't have the heart to tell her that she cant do this then I will. I have no qualms about putting my foot down, but I dont want the friend to feel intimidated or uncomfortable when she comes over in the future. For the record, I am not friend's with this person. I'll walk out to say hello and chit chat then go off to read. Other than keeping her out of my home unsupervised I would like to be thought of as a welcoming host. Any advice?
This makes me extremely uncomfortable. If my girlfriend doesn't have the heart to tell her that she cant do this then I will. I have no qualms about putting my foot down, but I dont want the friend to feel intimidated or uncomfortable when she comes over in the future. For the record, I am not friend's with this person. I'll walk out to say hello and chit chat then go off to read. Other than keeping her out of my home unsupervised I would like to be thought of as a welcoming host. Any advice?