marc237
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That's deep, man. Total paradigm shift.
I've actually gotten a lot of valuable information from this thread. If I didn't like the jacket, I wouldn't have bought it. I know what I like, but there are a lot of guys on this forum who have a lot of knowledge and experience that I value. I posted this thread because I was curious what others here would have to say and I wanted to know if I got a fair deal.
While I agree that the sentiment is a nice sentiment, it is also somewhat unrealistic. At the end of the day we all strive to strike a balance between our concerns for how our appearance and actions are perceived by others and our desire to chart our own course. Few of us reach that balance and most of us struggle to not let the views of others shape us too much.
Moreover, while we tend to seek input from all, we often weigh more seriously the input of persons presumed to know better the subject or to have a true eye. While I might appreciate an enthusiastic round of applause for a performance from a friend or relative, a simple thumbs up from a peer who I respect will be far more satisfying. Just the nature of the beast.
As to the jacket, I read your OP as seeking more than just affirmation, but a sense of why the choice made was good or bad. I think you received the type of critical analysis you sought and this forum would be very dull very quickly if we responded to requests for critical input by simply saying "hey, if you like it, that is all that counts."