JT82
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Having studied in Italy, and having lived in the medieval town which serves as the setting for Castiglione's The Book of the Courtier (from which the term Sprezzatura originates), I'd like to think I have somewhat of a literary understanding of the term. In practice, who knows. For those of you who do employ this "nonchalance" either intentionally or otherwise (i.e., unbuttoned cuffs or collars, unbuckled monk straps), have you ever been called out on it by a friend or stranger? Has anyone ever approached and told you that your cuff/collar button was undone, thinking they were doing you a favor (or for some other reason)? I'm curious to hear if this has ever happened and, if so, how you responded. I suppose when dealing with a stranger it's easier to remove yourself from the situation, but with friends who might not understand yet press the issue, what do you do? Do you respond with the same nonchalance?