It's interesting to me how so many on this forum see no problem spending many, many multiples more on clothing than the average person, yet balk in outrage over the idea of $30k weddings and engagement rings. Do you all live in your parents' basements while kicking around in your Lobbs?
i just don't get why you don't understand that $800 shoes once or twice a year that will last for years and years and years and never let you down are much different than 1 single day that will have no lasting impact on you.
whether you spend $1million on your wedding or $1000 on your wedding it's not going to change your marriage. so really it doesn't matter how much $$ you spend.