Seeking thoughts & opinions on wedding attire

Going to do it again, for the last time. So we were picking out a cake design last week, and it came up " what are your colors ", WTF, colors. Ok! ivory and royal blue.
LOML is going to wear an ivory dress of some sort, and I had already said I thought I would wear my tux ( after all it's already paid for ). Well cake is 3 tier with all these ivory and blue tinted flowers cascading down the sides, that I could buy a new pair of quite good cordovans or a mid priced suit instead of.
So, she says, it would look good if I get a royal blue cummerbund and bow tie, that would we could match in the boutonniere with ( ivory and blue- natch, our colors ).

There in lies the dichotomy . On one hand I'm thinking, everything would flow, color wise, for a good presentation. But there is voice in the back of my head that says " looking like senior prom wear".
So, I would like some thoughts to take into consideration, to make up my supposedly eclectic mind.

Roger

A royal blue bow tie and cumberbund will look ridiculous....like something out of a Men's Wearhouse ad, where all the guys look like they're wearing costumes instead of real tuxes. If you really need to have something match the cake, make it understated...like a pocket square, cufflinks, or maybe even your socks. Then again, if she wants you to do it, you're doing it.

Originally Posted by Beatlegeuse

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Then again, if she wants you to do it, you're doing it.

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