ZackyBoy
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I have one tattoo that very few people would ever see (even a bikini covers it). But as a chick, there are so many more opportunities for skin to be showing in non-sexual situations. And as one can tell even by the few postings here, many people either disapprove or judge, and sad as it may be some of those people may be in a position to hire or not hire me some day.
Some people I'm sure regret it (i'd regret it if I'd gotten a lower back tattoo), and some I'm sure do it to say "look at me." But for me it's not any more "look at me" than dressing well or making sure my hair and skin look good. I just happen to like the way a tattoo looks.
But I have to be very careful about my next one (ideally on my shoulder blade). People can be very judge-y and assume that I'm a specific person just because they have an idea in their mind what kind of person has a tattoo. Of course I also have a tiny study in my left nostril, but most people don't even notice it.
As for the guys who think it's nasty or sad or screams for attention - to each his own, right? Hopefully you can find an unmarked lady and I (and other tattooed ladies) will stick with a man who doesn't find my bit of ink repulsive. Everybody wins!
pics of tattoo