rjakapeanut
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OP,
I don't meant this to be insulting, but really this seems to be an issue about how you were brought up. it is basic manners to remove your hat indoors, and certainly when you are eating. it has been part of western civilization for hundreds, and probrably thousands of years. its an issue of respect - not removing your hat is disrespectful to the people sharing the eating space.
I dont freak out about it, but I was in orlando last week, and every time I went into a place to eat and saw how many men and boys were wearing hats it alloyed me. I didn't let it bother me, but I didn't like it.
and I would act just like matt's dad, if my son ate with a baseball cap or hat indoors.
no offense taken. your post would certainly be insulting if it applied to me, but once again i must stress: this isn't a question of my own manners. as stated before, i always take off a hat when entering someones home, a restaurant, church, etc.
i buy into it, just because it's regarded as courteous. i buy into it because it's not that big of a hassle for me to take my damned hat off.
the issue here is WHY we regard it as courteous. no one has given me a decent explanation.