How do I fix my social life/ make one?

[magicman221]

You really expect an actual friendship to go from 0 to 60 in a few weeks? Have you ever had a real friend?

what should i expect then? And no i have never had real friends before.

 

[Piobaire]



what should i expect then?

The unexpected.

 

[magicman221]

The unexpected.

uh What do you mean?

 

[MarkZR]

You are shy. It can be natural or becasue of some genetic matters becasue if your elders were shy/are shy then you are sharing the same habit. Do not you worry , i have seen many boys who were shy in their college life but when they entered in their professional life,they became the masters of all
So its good that you want to bring change now in your self and i assure you that if you will not discontinue this then at least till the end of your degree,you would be a confident and rocking man.
Basically its a time when a boy gets many changes and you will get too.

 

[mgm9128]

Genetics? May I be the first to call horseshit on that one.

 

[Nathan5653]

Genetics plays a role but not to the extent that MarkZR indicates. Anyhow, it's not enough to stop somebody from having a social life.

 

[mgm9128]

Again, horseshit. Don't really feel like getting into a long winded debate about this, but there is no genetic predisposition for social awkwardness.

 

[ehkay]

TRT, lay off soy.

 

[magicman221]

You are shy. It can be natural or becasue of some genetic matters becasue if your elders were shy/are shy then you are sharing the same habit. Do not you worry , i have seen many boys who were shy in their college life but when they entered in their professional life,they became the masters of all

So its good that you want to bring change now in your self and i assure you that if you will not discontinue this then at least till the end of your degree,you would be a confident and rocking man.
Basically its a time when a boy gets many changes and you will get too.

well as long as i dont turn out as the guy from ONe hour photo at the very least im good.

my elders are also were normal so idk why im like how i am haha.

 

[magicman221]

You really expect an actual friendship to go from 0 to 60 in a few weeks? Have you ever had a real friend?

Only 59 more to go,

 

[magicman221]

I gotta say things are better now by followin the advice written here, thnx all.

still got a long way to go though.

 

[Prem Merp]

Damn magicman, I understand pretty well how you feel. Where are you from btw, like where do you go to school?

 

[magicman221]

Damn magicman, I understand pretty well how you feel. Where are you from btw, like where do you go to school?

ya man it was a pretty lonely feeling, not the worst thing that can happen though

 

[magicman221]

Well its been almost 2 years.

I'm doing ok now =)...have a decent social life going for me.

 

[NAMOR]