topcatny
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Does anyone have any experience hiring/hosting au pairs?
My wife is pushing us to make a change in our childcare arrangements and to have an au-pair for the next year.
We currently have a live-out Nanny who has been with us for 5 years. She takes good care of our kids but has become complacent over the years. I know the kids are safe and cared for (we get unsolicited feedback from friends and aquaintences regularly) but she is lazy and I am positive it is time to make a change.
Going with an au-pair has positives and negatives. The positives are it will cost approximately half as much as I am paying now. If we choose well we will have someone who will want to be active with the kids and play with them regularly etc. And we will have someone who is willing to help out with little things around the house that our nanny has been avoiding doing lately.
The negatives are I am not sure about having someone live with us and I am not sure I am ready to basically be a parent to a 19-20 yr old girl. (I thought I'd have over 10 yrs before I'd have to deal with that). As well as after one year they leave and we start over again.
Does anyone have any experiences they can share or advice? (besides the anticipated response of make sure she's hot, etc etc.)
My wife is pushing us to make a change in our childcare arrangements and to have an au-pair for the next year.
We currently have a live-out Nanny who has been with us for 5 years. She takes good care of our kids but has become complacent over the years. I know the kids are safe and cared for (we get unsolicited feedback from friends and aquaintences regularly) but she is lazy and I am positive it is time to make a change.
Going with an au-pair has positives and negatives. The positives are it will cost approximately half as much as I am paying now. If we choose well we will have someone who will want to be active with the kids and play with them regularly etc. And we will have someone who is willing to help out with little things around the house that our nanny has been avoiding doing lately.
The negatives are I am not sure about having someone live with us and I am not sure I am ready to basically be a parent to a 19-20 yr old girl. (I thought I'd have over 10 yrs before I'd have to deal with that). As well as after one year they leave and we start over again.
Does anyone have any experiences they can share or advice? (besides the anticipated response of make sure she's hot, etc etc.)