Augustus Medici
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It's not that we don't get along. Our day-to-day socializing around the office is smooth, and I always nod when they say things like "we're a family" and so forth. I'm fine with them, but they're just not the sort of people I'd "hang out" with under normal conditions.
But now, some of my coworkers want to go out all the time, have parties at his place, at her place, at everybody's place, etc. I keep getting invited out of professional obligation on their part or because they really like me or whatever. My dilemma is that I can't quite turn these people down all the time because I have to see them M-F (S and SU sometimes too). It would cause needless office drama if I'm always "doing something else" just in time to conflict.
Should I tell them that I'm gay (although I think they're the sort of people that would just roll with it and still invite me)? I'm really quite vexed. What is my solution?
But now, some of my coworkers want to go out all the time, have parties at his place, at her place, at everybody's place, etc. I keep getting invited out of professional obligation on their part or because they really like me or whatever. My dilemma is that I can't quite turn these people down all the time because I have to see them M-F (S and SU sometimes too). It would cause needless office drama if I'm always "doing something else" just in time to conflict.
Should I tell them that I'm gay (although I think they're the sort of people that would just roll with it and still invite me)? I'm really quite vexed. What is my solution?