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post #361 of 3598
Some of the best advice on this subject I've ever gotten was, "You can only have someone tell you so many times that they don't want to be with you before you start to ask yourself if you really want to be with them."

It seems obvious, but isn't always easily to put into action.
post #362 of 3598
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Originally Posted by APK View Post
It can be a little difficult around holidays, even though a lot of people advocate being single during those times to save money, which has always struck me as a silly reason to not be with someone. I seem to end up in groups of people who are mostly couples, so that makes single life trying at times.

Maybe I'm just odd but I never understood why the holidays necessitated having a significant other. I've never felt the need to be with someone at that time to be any more important than the rest of the year. I'd even say I think I'm the exact opposite; I'd much rather spend those days with friends and family I haven't seen in a long time than with some chick I spend a lot of time with.
post #363 of 3598
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Know that I say this with lots of love and sincerity but someone needs to smack you in the face. Hard.

Without a doubt. In regards to this and many other situations.
post #364 of 3598
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Originally Posted by Nil View Post
I'd even say I think I'm the exact opposite; I'd much rather spend those days with friends and family I haven't seen in a long time than with some chick I spend a lot of time with.
+1 Although, I tend to think like that on most days, not just holidays.
post #365 of 3598
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True. But I don't want to get over her. So I guess if this makes me take longer to get over her it's not such a bad thing

I like torturing myself with misery too. But I mean, sometimes you fall into your own trap and become obsessed.
post #366 of 3598
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Know that I say this with lots of love and sincerity but someone needs to smack you in the face. Hard.

All his relationship posts are facepalm :/
post #367 of 3598
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All his relationship posts are facepalm :/

Sometimes, for whatever inexplicable reason, girls that could do so much better stick on you; and when they leave you find them utterly irreplaceable because you've been punching so far above your weight.

Then after multiple viewings of Swingers, everything is back to normal.
post #368 of 3598
lulz. gotta love sf
post #369 of 3598
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All his relationship posts are facepalm :/
Why? So he doesn't want to be a player and fuck his way around town? He found what he wants and is going for it. What's so bad about that? In a way I actually think its admirable.
post #370 of 3598
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Why? So he doesn't want to be a player and fuck his way around town? He found what he wants and is going for it. What's so bad about that? In a way I actually think its admirable.

The only thing I find offensive is this pattern:

Kwilk: <mopey posts about ex-gf>
Someone: <advice>
Kwilk: <Thx but no thx I'ma do what I'ma do>
Everyone: <advice>

Either everyone needs to shut up, or kwilk needs to shut up, I don't care which, it's just this exact conversation has happened so many dog-fucking times that my refrigerator is full and I've insaned
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Why? So he doesn't want to be a player and fuck his way around town? He found what he wants and is going for it. What's so bad about that? In a way I actually think its admirable.

Nobody's (well apart from MS ) telling him to fuck everything that moves. "What he wants" no longer wants him; people are simply trying to get him to stop obsessing about a past relationship so he can form new ones.
post #372 of 3598
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Nobody's (well apart from MS ) telling him to fuck everything that moves. "What he wants" no longer wants him; people are simply trying to get him to stop obsessing about a past relationship so he can form new ones.
Hell, I'd tell him to fuck everything that moves. I just know it would do no good. Boy's got it in his head that he only wants one thing. Until he realizes otherwise we're not moving that bar.
post #373 of 3598
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This is the kind of generic retarded shit that doesn't mean anything and that you can't possibly know about but that close friends will say because it makes their sad friend feel better. You are not his close friend so shuttup. Fuji: keep your chin up though, you sound like a pretty cool dude so you'll do ok. No need to compare your situation to hers; a breakup isn't a happiness/success competition and you'll only get obsessed if you try to keep tabs of who is "winning".
Don't worry I'm fine now. I got wrecked on MD and went for a bit of a rave last night and got with some gorgeous girl and I went out last friday with my exes friend and got with her too so its all good. I think this is a fairly good way to get over a girl.
post #374 of 3598
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post
The only thing I find offensive is this pattern:

Kwilk: <mopey posts about ex-gf>
Someone: <advice>
Kwilk: <Thx but no thx I'ma do what I'ma do>
Everyone: <advice>

Either everyone needs to shut up, or kwilk needs to shut up, I don't care which, it's just this exact conversation has happened so many dog-fucking times that my refrigerator is full and I've insaned

I have never asked for relationship advice on this forum or given any indication that I would follow it. So is it really surprising that I don't follow the advice that I don't ask for and don't need?
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I have never asked for relationship advice on this forum or given any indication that I would follow it. So is it really surprising that I don't follow the advice that I don't ask for and don't need?

Hence the following:

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Originally Posted by Magician View Post
Know that I say this with lots of love and sincerity but someone needs to smack you in the face. Hard.
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