Originally Posted by ClarkKent
Getting back to your original post that started it all, yes, women and men are shallow these days. The whole personality stuff is a load of garbage, I learned this first hand. In fact, when it comes to just hook ups (ONS) women are way more selective about looks than men are. When women talk about personality traits, they mean for LTRs aka when they feel their biological clock ticking and feel that it is time to settle down. You got frustrated by a user because you thought she got with a man because of a change of clothes, as men we are shallow too no matter how much we want to deny it. Would you still hit on that pretty looking blonde at the bar if she was overweight and had bad teeth?
Now that we have established that looks matter quite a lot for attraction, why can't we keep this topic on how to make the most of your looks and be the handsome guy (maybe plastic surgery) rather than about forum drama?
Wait...you're complaining about women being shallow for hookups
? What other criteria would they use
"Hey your personality is great, let's go have some meaningless sex then never see each other again." Don't focus on scoring 10s and hooking up if you want depth. Plenty of women are getting into LDRs in college, the prevalence of hookup culture is vastly overstated. People just aren't looking in the right places, ain't going to find women looking for a real partner in da club.
Market dynamics son. Women in the hookup scene get hit on 986t875859696 times more often than men. They can afford to be picky.
Yes I know I put a "t" in there. I don't care.