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post #84826 of 85808
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Originally Posted by patrickBOOTH View Post

I've had an interesting day last night in terms of the ladies. I had a very strange relationship with this girl many years ago when I was in college. She was in high school and I was in college. She was the younger sister of a friend of mine in college and for whatever reason he gave me her AOL instant messenger name after one day I was joking around and said, "I bet your sister's hot". Anyway we would banter back and forth and I would drive to her house and hang out with her. She was an incredibly bizarre person, but I enjoyed it. It was unique, she was smart and asked me a lot of questions about a lot of different things and we watched a lot of movies together. It was also weird, I guess I was 21 and she was um 16 (I never touched her don't worry). Anyway, I graduate and she goes to college at Oxford, I was living in NYC and she was on summer break involved in all kinds of weird activism stuff and she sent me a massive essay recounting all kinds of things we did together, reflecting on what she was feeling during those times and this yearning for wanting something more between us. It was an extremely vulnerable email that touched me. We got together for coffee later that week and had a wonderful time together. She ended up going back to Oxford and just a few months later I met my now ex that I was with for 7 years. During that time I didn't speak to this girl for obvious reasons, I think, but she was also all over the place with school and just life in general. I always wanted my ex to meet her because they are so similar, but I felt it would be awkward. Fast forward to today. I had been thinking a lot about this woman over the past year since my break-up wondering where she could be, who she is with, what she is thinking, is she thinking of me, and whether she'll ever return some day. I had all kinds of thoughts in my mind about what she is probably up to. She doesn't have Facebook, I figured her old school email is defunct, and I figured her phone number is probably different. I had a few dreams about her father (who died the day I moved to NYC) and how much he loved coffee. I also had dreams recounting awkward times we spent together. Then one day a few weeks ago I come across her on a dating app. She is 27 years old and her profile isn't surprising at all. 27. She was just 16, in high school when I started hanging out with her. Now she's a grown woman. Obviously I bite at the app, but didn't get anything in return. Thinking I still know her, she probably doesn't check that stuff often. I hold my breath last week and think, meh I'll go out on a limb and send a message to her old phone number. BOOM! Still her's and lo and behold she said that she had been thinking of me a lot lately wondering where I could be, who I am with, what I am thinking, was I thinking of her, and whether I'll ever return some day. We ended up getting together last night for coffee and ended up taking an 8 hour walk recounting our lives, thinking of when we were young. She's doing exactly the kind of stuff I expected. Our lifestyles are completely different, as they were then, but for whatever reason we still enjoy each other's company very much on some strange level. I am very happy I know her and I cherish the times we have had. Unfortunately I don't think a relationship is in the cards for us as she travels ~300 days out of the year. I don't think another long distance relationship is in the cards for me. I am not sure what form our relationship will take in the future, but I'd like her to be a part of my life in some way. After spending so much time with her last night I wanted to kind of chill out so I went to my local bar for a drink. I see my friend's girlfriend who I talked with about my experience. Two other girls walk in and I comment how one of them is beautiful. She tries to get me to talk with her, but I don't have the motivation. The cute girl leaves soon after. The other girl she was with ends up talking with me and says her friend left because she was tired, but she thought I was cute and I should call her. She gives me the beautiful girl's phone number. What a fucking day.

So this girl from a long time ago. After spending time with her last week she has been sending me a lot of messages from Asia (where she is for work this week). She's very interested in me. Seeing her brought back a lot of those feelings. I like her a lot, but ultimately I don't want to commit to her lifestyle of travel constantly. I don't know what the future will bring. In other news the girl from the last few sentences of above, I have a date with her tomorrow night. It ain't easy being teh Booth.
post #84827 of 85808
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Originally Posted by patrickBOOTH View Post

So there is this girl at the cafe that I see all of the time. She's here more than me. She's always working very diligently, reading and writing and such. I have never gotten a good look at the books, but she kinda has an insane body. The other day she caught me off guard because I was standing at the counter on my laptop and the cafe was very full. Somebody got up from a table and this girl who was next to me said, "hey do you want dibs on the seat?" It was the first time she spoke to me after years of seeing her here. I am thinking that she might be the perfect woman for me (because she is always at the cafe and we have that interest in common).

i am at the cafe right now and in the standing area where I usually am there is a mirror on the wall. I happen to be standing in front of it. The girl from above comes in and stand next to me and fixes her hair in the mirror. I don't think she really wanted to fix her hair she just wanted to get close to teh Booth.
post #84828 of 85808
Oh man, plenty of room in the standing area of the cafe. Cute girl parks right next to me when she doesn't have to. You know what that means! Wants to get close to teh Booth.
post #84829 of 85808
I was in a coffee shop earlier (Starbuck) the woman ahead of me in line was singing along with the song on the audio system. Here's the thing though she sang out of tune.
post #84830 of 85808
How do you get a Dubiously Honored title? Do you have to get a certain number of thumbs?
post #84831 of 85808
You have to make "great contributions" to the forum. (felatio)
post #84832 of 85808
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Originally Posted by L'Incandescent View Post

I was in a coffee shop earlier (Starbuck) the woman ahead of me in line was singing along with the song on the audio system. Here's the thing though she sang out of tune.

The woman I am going on a date with tomorrow night actually works for Starbuck (corporate).
post #84833 of 85808
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Originally Posted by patrickBOOTH View Post

So there is this girl at the cafe that I see all of the time. She's here more than me. She's always working very diligently, reading and writing and such. I have never gotten a good look at the books, but she kinda has an insane body. The other day she caught me off guard because I was standing at the counter on my laptop and the cafe was very full. Somebody got up from a table and this girl who was next to me said, "hey do you want dibs on the seat?" It was the first time she spoke to me after years of seeing her here. I am thinking that she might be the perfect woman for me (because she is always at the cafe and we have that interest in common).

This girl has put on some weight in the last year. She's starting to get "teacher arms". Might be over her.
post #84834 of 85808
In that dream, were either of them eating your face?
post #84835 of 85808
No.
post #84836 of 85808
If I wrote a book would you guys buy it and read it?
post #84837 of 85808
Eating is so annoying, you have to stop what you're doing to procure food and eat it. It costs money too. So irritating.
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I'm being sued by the IRS! Oh no!
post #84839 of 85808
Good, I am sick of subsidizing your sorry ass.
post #84840 of 85808
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Originally Posted by patrickBOOTH View Post

Eating is so annoying, you have to stop what you're doing to procure food and eat it. It costs money too. So irritating.

If the human body were a consumer product, the downtime and maintenance and fuel costs would doom it on the open market.
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