^Congrats! I wouldn't excuse people. That "advice" points to why it's not worth the effort. Then there are all the other consequences others have mentioned.
Originally Posted by Thomas
...Our ten-year anniversay is this month.
And to you too. Great story. Hoping to find someone like that myself.
Originally Posted by TyCooN
Here's something I'm confused about, most guys will have sex with a girl who already has a boyfriend without a second thought, but when you bring up cheating to them you will get a moral lesson. How does this work?
I doubt most guys are like that.
Originally Posted by Tokyo Slim
... I've turned down married women on a number of occasions....
+1. I've also turned down girls w/ boyfriends. Invariably, it's turned out to be the right decision.
Originally Posted by odoreater
One way is to not cheat. Just sayin'.
Originally Posted by tiecollector
By not doing it in the first place.
This is the answer.