BreakfastPirate
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Okay, so I'm in kind of a moral dilemma here, and I'm not entirely sure if I've done anything wrong.
The Situtation:
When I met my current girlfriend, I had an ongoing (about a year) friends with benefits type of relationship with a friend of mine who lives about four hours away. Me and the FWB girl have never been exclusive, and it's always been assumed that we're going to date other people. I met my current girlfriend and then we ended up ********** after three or so dates. Immediately after that she left on a trip she already had planned to go visit her parents out of state.
While she was gone, FWB girl had plans from a few months ago to visit me and go see a concert. We ended up ********** that weekend, but when my current girlfriend came back the next week things progressed and we decided to be exclusive. At the time I figured no problem, I'll just stop ********** with the FWB girl.
Fast forward a few months into the relationship, she found out her and I went to that concert together while she was out of state. She asked me directly if her and I had sex when she was out here. I wasn't going to lie to her since she asked me specifically, so I told her yes. Now she's incredibly hurt and thinks I'm the biggest asshole in the world.
Did I do anything wrong here? At the time, me and her weren't exclusive and we had only had sex once. We never actually talked about other sexual partners, she just assumed that since I had sex with her I wasn't going to ******** with anyone else. The dates were clearly done with the intention of starting a relationship, but I had no idea if things were going to work out with her or not at the time. Discuss:
The Situtation:
When I met my current girlfriend, I had an ongoing (about a year) friends with benefits type of relationship with a friend of mine who lives about four hours away. Me and the FWB girl have never been exclusive, and it's always been assumed that we're going to date other people. I met my current girlfriend and then we ended up ********** after three or so dates. Immediately after that she left on a trip she already had planned to go visit her parents out of state.
While she was gone, FWB girl had plans from a few months ago to visit me and go see a concert. We ended up ********** that weekend, but when my current girlfriend came back the next week things progressed and we decided to be exclusive. At the time I figured no problem, I'll just stop ********** with the FWB girl.
Fast forward a few months into the relationship, she found out her and I went to that concert together while she was out of state. She asked me directly if her and I had sex when she was out here. I wasn't going to lie to her since she asked me specifically, so I told her yes. Now she's incredibly hurt and thinks I'm the biggest asshole in the world.
Did I do anything wrong here? At the time, me and her weren't exclusive and we had only had sex once. We never actually talked about other sexual partners, she just assumed that since I had sex with her I wasn't going to ******** with anyone else. The dates were clearly done with the intention of starting a relationship, but I had no idea if things were going to work out with her or not at the time. Discuss: