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Originally Posted by
Razele 
If someone's face was horrifically damaged either thought accident or by cause not of their own consent, the context of that fear of social disapproval is vastly different to yours, which is your mother not liking your shoes. You can see that right?
Just forget the face analogy. In retrospect I should have never used it since it has sidetracked us into a largely pointless argument.
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Originally Posted by
Razele 
I wear ridiculous metallic knits and gradient turtle necks, silk cardigans, patent sneakers etc etc and I really could not care what people thought. If they don't like it so be it, each to their own. Why are you dressing for their approval? Just kop DILF jeans, white T and six pack of lite beer as accessory, you will fit right in. I don't think people are going to change their ways about your ninja fashionz, no matter how much you argue with them. More so, they will probably give you more grief. Ontop of this, if your shy / meek then they will give you hell ala SZ.
So is this why you never post any fit pics? You truly don't care what anybody thinks about your style nor are you curious to receive feedback?
I don't primarily dress for others' approval. If that had that been my main goal, I've certainly failed! However I do dress to present a certain look/image and to fit in somewhat. And when people say they see something different than what I intended, I feel compelled to better understand why. Partially out of pure curiosity to understand their point of view, and partially out of a personal desire to tweak my look slightly since I am always looking for ways to incrementally change things.
I feel the often voiced platitudes here of "I dress for myself" are likely overstated. As I mentioned before kunk seems like a very confident guy, yet we learned he is concerned about how others may perceive his Rick outfits while at Disney. This is not a lack of confidence, but being in tune the environment and what others around you feel. By contrast SZ feels inward looking, like it is shutting out the world.