Dating call back question…

at least made out severly. If not by the 2nd date, you're well on the path to "Good-friend-dom"

Originally Posted by Get Smart

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at least made out severly. If not by the 2nd date, you're well on the path to "Good-friend-dom"

A gentleman never tells, but let’s just say it was a very nice drive on the way back to my house. Also, it’s very clear to both of us: we are dating, none of this good friends nonsense.

Jon.

Originally Posted by imageWIS

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A gentleman never tells, but let's just say it was a very nice drive on the way back to my house. Also, it's very clear to both of us: we are dating, none of this good friends nonsense.

Jon.

Bravissimo!!!

Yeah, so apparently now she had plans for Friday and Saturday… and wants to get together Sunday…

I mean if she would rather spend time with her 'friends' and not cancel plans for me, then I'd better move on, no?

Jon.

Originally Posted by imageWIS

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Yeah, so apparently now she had plans for Friday and Saturday… and wants to get together Sunday…

I mean if she would rather spend time with her 'friends' and not cancel plans for me, then I'd better move on, no?

Jon.
No offense, but have you ever had a girlfriend? I would just chill and take it as it comes. Relax and don't put so much pressure on her or on yourself.

Originally Posted by iammatt

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No offense, but have you ever had a girlfriend?

I would just chill and take it as it comes. Relax and don't put so much pressure on her or on yourself.

Of course I have, but at the same time, they always wanted to make some room for me, I mean, I do the same for them. I don't want to only get together when she has no plans with anyone else. I mean, I'm just not going to bend to her will, this is a partnership, not a dictatorship.

Jon.

Originally Posted by imageWIS

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Yeah, so apparently now she had plans for Friday and Saturday... and wants to get together Sunday...

I mean if she would rather spend time with her 'friends' and not cancel plans for me, then I'd better move on, no?

Jon.

Interesting thread. My response to your newest post:

You're really ready to jump ship a bit quickly on this. The girl digs your ****, you dig her ****, stop putting so much pressure on things. Many people, when they really like someone, will do their best to maintain some distance by continuing to hang out with friends and engaging in non-relationship activities. It doesn't instantly mean she doesn't like you, it means she's got her own life, and she's trying to maintain some autonomy while she's getting to know you. That's a good thing, and if you can respect it--and things work out--you'll find it to be a great thing down the road.

Originally Posted by imageWIS

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Of course I have, but at the same time, they always wanted to make some room for me, I mean, I do the same for them. I don't want to only get together when she has no plans with anyone else. I mean, I'm just not going to bend to her will, this is a partnership, not a dictatorship.
Jon.

Nobody's saying bend to her will. Unless I missed something, you're not at the "couple" stage yet. Who knows what her plans are? Assuming she had made these plans in advance and just overlooked them, it seems legitimate for her to want to honor a prior commitment but still make time in her schedule for you. But if you're busy Sunday (or was that the preceding Sunday, I've lost track), you shouldn't feel compelled to change your plans either.
I agree with the hippie matt, you should just like, chill, man.

Originally Posted by lawyerdad

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Nobody's saying bend to her will. Unless I missed something, you're not at the "couple" stage yet. Who knows what her plans are? Assuming she had made these plans in advance and just overlooked them, it seems legitimate for her to want to honor a prior commitment but still make time in her schedule for you. But if you're busy Sunday (or was that the preceding Sunday, I've lost track), you shouldn't feel compelled to change your plans either.
I agree with the hippie matt, you should just like, chill, man.

I'm not busy this upcoming Sunday.

Jon.

Originally Posted by imageWIS

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I'm not busy this upcoming Sunday.

Jon.

Tell her, not me.

Originally Posted by lawyerdad

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Tell her, not me.

I'm just responding to your post.

Jon.

Originally Posted by imageWIS

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Yeah, so apparently now she had plans for Friday and Saturday... and wants to get together Sunday...

I mean if she would rather spend time with her 'friends' and not cancel plans for me, then I'd better move on, no?

Wow... for a second there, I could swear you were one of my ex-girlfriends.

Originally Posted by Saucemaster

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Wow... for a second there, I could swear you were one of my ex-girlfriends.

I see...that sucks (for you and me).

Jon.

Well, I got the: 'I'm not looking for a relationship' talk plus 'I want to be upfront' nonesense.

Jon.