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Girlfriend's Crazy Ex-Boyfriend - what to do?

Alter

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Originally Posted by Incman
Things are going well. Nothing ended up happening with the ex (he never even mentioned the note again to her), so we pretty much concluded that he must have written it while drunk or very angry, or some combination of both.

As for the living situation, my father and I helped her move out yesterday while her ex was at work, to avoid any unnecessary confrontation. She is now living with her mom, and things are starting to look up.

He will finally be able to start getting over her, which was impossible with her still living there. She is finally out of that situation and will be able to focus on her own life. And now I don't have the worries of her living with a potentially unstable drunk/stoner.

As for our relationship, things are going smoothly, and I am hopeful that things will continue along this path.
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Glad to hear it, Incman.
 

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Originally Posted by Incman
Things are going well. Nothing ended up happening with the ex (he never even mentioned the note again to her), so we pretty much concluded that he must have written it while drunk or very angry, or some combination of both.

As for the living situation, my father and I helped her move out yesterday while her ex was at work, to avoid any unnecessary confrontation. She is now living with her mom, and things are starting to look up.

He will finally be able to start getting over her, which was impossible with her still living there. She is finally out of that situation and will be able to focus on her own life. And now I don't have the worries of her living with a potentially unstable drunk/stoner.

As for our relationship, things are going smoothly, and I am hopeful that things will continue along this path.
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Great update. And we thought you'd be dead by now. My respect for you only grows.
 

XeF4

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I read about half of the OP post, but I think you should get away from both of them because they both sound like real shitheads. Also OP don't get into relationships with horrible people, don't even become thier friends.
 

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Originally Posted by XeF4
I read about half of the OP post, but I think you should get away from both of them because they both sound like real shitheads. Also OP don't get into relationships with horrible people, don't even become thier friends.
You didn't read this thread?
 

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Originally Posted by sartorialism
Shame on all of you.

QFT

This whole situation is a mess. Young dudes need to learn to not do stupid things like date girls living with their "ex" boyfriends. The girl clearly made a mess of her own life and 26 year old rapper dude is also clueless. All in all, just a smorgasbord of bad decision making all around.

No offense to OP but just dump the broad, you'll be much happier in the long run finding a girl who is a little more stable.
 

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Worse yet, don't date a woman still living with her husband, especially when she tells you it's over with him (too bad she didn't ell him).
 

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Read the ******* thread you donkeys.
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Just thought I'd post an update in case anyone is interested.

Our 6-month anniversary is coming up in about a week, and I must say that I am very happy with the way our relationship is going. We have a very strong and caring relationship, a great time whenever we spend time together, and an amazing sex life. I know that the situation at the beginning was nowhere near ideal, but I knew that she was worth sticking it out, and I am quite glad that I did.

Oh, and crazy-ex is no longer a part of her (or my) life in any form. The last contact she had with him was when he dropped off the last of her stuff a couple months ago.

Life is good
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Awesome, glad to hear it turned out well.
 

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