RedLantern
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Then what the **** is the point? And don't say "a foundation to move on from" that doesn't mean anything. You're not being honest with yourself.
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Thats bullshit. You're saying she is in control over whether you move on or not.
MarkI has out-
This is not true, I just want to ******* say goodbye, and walk away with some sense of closure, this up in the air **** is ridiculous. And it comes from her end, thats why I say goodbye.
Maybe it doesnt make sense, maybe its illogical, but simply put, I can only begin to move on after I hear her say goodbye, and I say goodbye, then I walk away, and move on.
Alright, so instead relationships should go on, indefinitely in some strange topsy turvy state, where neither party has straight out said that they are no longer together?
There isn't, so long as both parties play by those rules. In your case, neither party has, and you've given us no reason (beyond your solemn word) to believe that's going to change. Your long goodbye has been all "long" and no "goodbye." So, your real choice is between: 1) both parties stop seeing/calling/texting/whatevering each other, and the relationship is actually over; and 2) both parties keep seeing/calling/texting/whatevering each other to say that the relationship is over (kinda sorta maybe), ad infinitum. The latter is what you've been doing for weeks.
Or how about, one party says goodbye, because they are sick of the way the other party is acting?
Or how about, one party says goodbye, because they are sick of the way the other party is acting?
I don't, and that's why i'm saying goodbye.