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I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

randallr

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Originally Posted by mellowfellow
Lol the week before we broke up I bought her that movie. It was one of her favorites.

randallr says get a running start and bang some strange.
 

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So I finally did it, said my peace, and walked out on her.

I'm literally in the cab for 10 minutes and I get a text, "I love you so much and i'm so sorry"

I dont really, couple of minutes later, "You said this would take time, but you're forcing it on me I can't do that."

Now I just got home, and early in the night, *********, and called her by a petname, and then I just asked what her favorite nickname was, that I had for her, she said -----

This text I just got "babygirl is a nice one too."

didnt reply though, im not going to pick up her calls or answer her texts. at this point im really ready to focus on myself and move on...i think i am at least. right now i dont really feel anything, hasnt really hit me. im sure it will soon enough, and its going to ******* suck, but such is life.

serious shoutout to everyone in this thread for all the advice, now that i look back on everything, it really was good stuff.
 

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Originally Posted by Teger
mellowfellow: can you give any more details? was it a life choice/profession thing?

also, go by yourself something nice


Looks like our man is doing the opposite.
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Just don't unload everything, mellow, otherwise we'll be forced to deduce that you're hoarding a bunch of pills in preparation to do something stupid.
 

MarkI

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Mellow hang in there! i'm sure it's no consolation, but if you're ever in NYC hit a brother up, we'll drink a brew and share sordid tales of our broken relationships and tortured souls.
 

MarkI

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Originally Posted by kwilkinson
You made the right move, man. Feel good about that at least.

im tryin man, i really am
 

dfagdfsh

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mark im confused.. did you ahve sex with her tonight?
 

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Originally Posted by fuji
Called it quits with crazy girl. After taking her out for lunch, spending about $100 on her on drinks and expensive little pastries and bringing her punting and just having her act like a ***** and try to get me to buy drugs the whole time and saying how **** me taking her out is. I told her I can't do this any more, she's too emotional draining and is making me feel like **** and I don't want to see her any more. She's sending me some crazy messages on fb, just not gonna reply, I can't take her craziness any more. Also she was saying she doesn't think we should ******** any more and as that was an important factor of the relationship so it couldn't have lasted long after that. Ill get some crazy **** from her in about 2 weeks saying how depressed she is, ***** needs to cheer up. She's been refusing medication and therapy for the last few months and she's just gone off the rails.

Well done lad
 

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Originally Posted by Teger
mark im confused.. did you ahve sex with her tonight?

yes, and made her orgasm like crazy. im sure shes thinking about that now too.
 

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Originally Posted by MarkI
yes, and made her orgasm like crazy. im sure shes thinking about that now too.
It's tough when you can't tell if you're ******* or going.
 

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Originally Posted by MarkI
So I finally did it, said my peace, and walked out on her.

I'm literally in the cab for 10 minutes and I get a text, "I love you so much and i'm so sorry"

I dont really, couple of minutes later, "You said this would take time, but you're forcing it on me I can't do that."

Now I just got home, and early in the night, *********, and called her by a petname, and then I just asked what her favorite nickname was, that I had for her, she said -----

This text I just got "babygirl is a nice one too."

didnt reply though, im not going to pick up her calls or answer her texts. at this point im really ready to focus on myself and move on...i think i am at least. right now i dont really feel anything, hasnt really hit me. im sure it will soon enough, and its going to ******* suck, but such is life.

serious shoutout to everyone in this thread for all the advice, now that i look back on everything, it really was good stuff.


It goes up and down. For now, the best is for you to move on. At least you have taken the initiative, and you are the one empowered walking out with her still feeling it was her mistakes that led to you guys separating - an ideal position, much better than the victim hood you were reveling in before.


Originally Posted by Teger
it's not over. gaurantee it.

+1. But don't pin your hopes on it though.
 

Rambo

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Originally Posted by randallr
randallr says get a running start and bang some strange.
Best advice in this thread so far.
Originally Posted by pstoller
It's tough when you can't tell if you're ******* or going.
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