CDFS
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Man- what I think he was getting at was the aloofness that comes from being happy with yourself. The sort of attitude that comes when it honestly doesn't matter whether or not you go home with someone tonight not because you've given up on the company, but because you enjoy your time by yourself. People picked up on it quickly when I went through a depressed, giving up on everyone phase. It was a self-fulfilling sort of negativity that drove people away and proceeded to simply reinforce my feelings that nobody cared about me. I was miserable to be around, so people didn't want to be around me. If you're down enough that you've noticed it effecting your demeanor, then everyone else is getting the same vibe. I wouldn't invite you meet other people because you'd kill the mood. CDFS has it- pull yourself out of whatever hole you're digging and start living a life that you enjoy.
Yeah, I was, like, being ironic, like. I thought:
was delightfully circular. But on the same track; when I was depressed (before), I once went to a university psychologist who made me describe my day. Hearing of my empty existince he told me everyone would be depressed living such a life. This made sense only it is difficult to apply this knowledge in a positive fashion to one's life.3 Find a way to get myself alone with girlfriends while drunk 4 ******** with the girlfriends (if you get the this step, it will be likely that you can easily bed them)