What do you do when your wife/GF is away?

jgold47 · Jan 14, 2011

I jerk off alot. I think I turned into a compuslive masterbator at one point in my life. I watch bad softcore Appreciation on the big tv cause I can. Its not as good as the nasty **** on the computer, but it works. then again, this only happnes about 3 days a year.

AntiHero84 · Jan 14, 2011

Watch movies she has little or no interest in... Or that might scar her emotionally.

Have a few more drinks than I would normally.

Blast music and wander aimlessly on the internet.

Go to a skatepark.

Stay up way too late and wake up really early.

Eat nothing but omelets, sandwiches, and pizza.

Maybe take a day to peruse as many thrift stores as possible.

Go to a hardcore or punk show and drop by the bar afterwards.

Start missing her a few hours after she leaves.

EDIT: ... oh yeah, and masturbate.

thekunk07 · Jan 14, 2011

on the contrary, i am lost when she's not around. i dont like socializing much save for the occasional football game/wings with buddies. only indulgence is 2 hr gym sessions when she's not around

Originally Posted by Nil

Married life sounds a little depressing.

CouttsClient · Jan 14, 2011

Originally Posted by thekunk07

on the contrary, i am lost when she's not around. i dont like socializing much save for the occasional football game/wings with buddies. only indulgence is 2 hr gym sessions when she's not around

I'm very happy some people find this, but I don't ever want to be so close to anyone. Again.

whiteslashasian · Jan 14, 2011

Originally Posted by CouttsClient

I'm very happy some people find this, but I don't ever want to be so close to anyone. Again.

I won't hurt you

But seriously, you should probably get over that.

thekunk07 · Jan 14, 2011

well, it's not all roses. i am lost because there is no one to fight with or demand sex and food from

CouttsClient · Jan 14, 2011

Originally Posted by whiteslashasian

I won't hurt you

But seriously, you should probably get over that.
I tried but reality is often far different than my fantasy. Some things live with you...it is the way it is

Neo_Version 7 · Jan 14, 2011

Originally Posted by whiteslashasian

I won't hurt you

But seriously, you should probably get over that.

I'm sorry but in his case, I think it's pretty justifiable.

http://www.styleforum.net/showpost.p...&postcount=784

CouttsClient · Jan 14, 2011

Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7

I'm sorry but in his case, I think it's pretty justifiable.

http://www.styleforum.net/showpost.p...&postcount=784
Not sure what made me post that initially, but I live with this dilemma and it's awful. To a person who is as relationship oriented as I am being unable to really let myself delve into one is torture. Especially now since I'm being heavily pursued by someone I've been "seeing" for a while. I recently had the "I think we should stop..." conversation. But anyway. That's all for a different thread.

When I WAS in a relationship I mostly listened to my music without headphones and had the TV far too loud when I was alone. Most other things were the same.

whiteslashasian · Jan 14, 2011

Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7

I'm sorry but in his case, I think it's pretty justifiable.

http://www.styleforum.net/showpost.p...&postcount=784

W.T.F?!?!?!

That is next level crazy there. I can't imagine going through something like that. How does something like that "just happen" out of the blue from a 4 year relationship?!

Thomas · Jan 14, 2011

Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7

I'm sorry but in his case, I think it's pretty justifiable.

http://www.styleforum.net/showpost.p...&postcount=784

oh holy hell CC - that's awful! I don't think I could ever get over something like that.

CouttsClient · Jan 14, 2011

Originally Posted by whiteslashasian

W.T.F?!?!?!

That is next level crazy there. I can't imagine going through something like that. How does something like that "just happen" out of the blue from a 4 year relationship?!

Your guess would be only slightly worse than mine...I've been considering for a couple of months that I should write a letter or something but haven't been able to express myself nor to I believe I would ever get a real answer.

Originally Posted by Thomas

oh holy hell CC - that's awful! I don't think I could ever get over something like that.

It's been about 1.5yrs since and I'm over being distraught about it but the emotional damage just might be permanent. I'm a pretty easy going fellow and people would never guess I went through something so traumatic unless we begin discussing why I'm not in a relationship. Then people are all-

Douglas · Jan 14, 2011

wow. wtf. I'm sorry, man.

NorCal · Jan 14, 2011

That's cold. My heart goes out to you, for real. No one should have that type of **** happen to them. ***** even took your dog!

oDD_LotS · Jan 14, 2011

When she's away:

I turn up the TV (I'm slightly hard of hearing, so it's great to watch it at MY level without annoying her)

I do all the messy/inconvenient projects around the house, things that require demolition or turning off the water

I always get a LOT of cleaning/DIY stuff done

I cook less (not that much fun cooking for one) and eat cheaply.

I try to take the time to do all the stuff that I'm too busy/distracted to get done when she's here, partly so that I get a head start, but also so that she comes home to a neater house, remodeled bedroom, or organized finances.

Mostly I do whatever I can to take my mind off missing her, though.

What do you do when your wife/GF is away?

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