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i agree, man. you guys are getting married to idiots just to get married. you shouldn't get married to anyone that materialistic.
Er... this is a forum where people spend $1K+ on dinners and wear custom suits and shoes. Have you taken a look at your wardrobe lately? I'm willing to bet that a lot of people posting here go through $10K of outfits in a week, easy.
Can someone explain the appeal of a big wedding to me? I REALLY don't get it. Wtf would i want to spend all that money on people I never see and that I wouldn't miss if they were dead?
i agree, man. you guys are getting married to idiots just to get married. you shouldn't get married to anyone that materialistic.
Er... this is a forum where people spend $1K+ on dinners and wear custom suits and shoes. Have you taken a look at your wardrobe lately? I'm willing to bet that a lot of people posting here go through $10K of outfits in a week, easy.
i don't really understand what any of that had to do with my post so i can't really respond to it.
Big weddings are, in my opinion, an expensive party thrown for the benefit of people other than the bride and groom. It's stressful, expensive, and the bride and groom rarely even get to enjoy any of the festivities, like eating and drinking. I've never understood the appeal, never wanted one myself, and a disagreement like the one between the OP and his fiancee' is, in my opinion, a harbinger of things to come in the marriage.
Agreed that people who have big fights with their fiancee about the wedding are in for a rough time. I wouldn't be happy with a woman who had a big princess complex about the wedding, I don't believe that stuff is ever really isolated to just the wedding. We spent a lot of money, but it was about everybody (including us) having a good time, not some fairytale from childhood embodied.
i don't really understand what any of that had to do with my post so i can't really respond to it.
OP, I think that you are making the right choice. the suggestions people made to save money were good, we did most of those. we also used low end liquor, and put top label stuff under the counter with instructions to the barstaff to only give the good stuff to people who asked for it specifically.
I enjoyed the hell out of my wedding. One of the best days of my life, from start to finish
We quicky realized that it was our parents -- well more precisely our mothers -- who wanted a big wedding. We bowed out gracefully and let them plan and pay for it. That said, I recall seeing my father-in-law at the post wedding reception (1000+ guests). For a brief moment he was standing all alone in that crowded room ... looking terribly lonely. I walked up and asked if he was alright. He responded, "Alright, but broke." I retorted, "You know this was not our idea, we didn't really want a grand wedding. You didn't have to do this." He replied, "You really don't know your mother-in-law well enough yet. You will."
For 30k, I'd rather be the center of attention at Rubinacci. Just sayin'