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Significant other annoyed at your layers and accessories?

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Originally Posted by patrickBOOTH
I think you should be banned from this forvm, you're obviously not up to its standards.

I know, I know.
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Random tip; keep a couple of cheap ties on hand if your SO is into any kind of bondage; for some reason girls prefer to use your tie to tie you up. You don't want your Drakes grenadine on one wrist and your 7-fold Borrelli on the other, right?
 

patrickBOOTH

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Originally Posted by Threadbearer
Seems to me that if you spend too much time on your clothes at that particular moment, you're sending your lady a clear signal that you value your material possessions more than the act you are about to perform. It also implies that you take her for granted, in that you're willing to risk losing the mood merely to prevent wrinkled fabrics.

Don't get me wrong. I share your desire to hang my clothes properly the moment I take them off. But in certain circumstances, I fight that urge.
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I think this is a perfect signal to send for several reasons. It shows that you take care of what you have and you get things finished that need to be done so you can focus more on her. A person who obviously spends tons of money on clothes and then wrecks it in an instinctual act of lust shows they are more balls, less brains and can't use their head to make proper desicions!
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Also, even if you rip everthing off, just the sheer amount of things that have to come off even with the littlest care exceeds the bro in a muscle shirt. It is still enough to ruin a mood.
 

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Originally Posted by in stitches
i think pulling on someones tie is a capital offense in some countries

I need to be in those countries...one of my borrelli 7 folds suffered because of this.
 

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I know we are all a little crazy or OCD about out clothing/shoes, but putting in your shoe trees and hanging up all of your clothes perfectly first is going too far. Seriously, just leave them on the ground, ********, then take care of your shoes and clothes. Nothing is going to get ruined in the time it takes you have to ********.

Now...if she is ripping your clothes off and ruining them, then yes, that is going too far.
 

patrickBOOTH

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Originally Posted by ChicagoMediaMan-27
I know we are all a little crazy or OCD about out clothing/shoes, but putting in your shoe trees and hanging up all of your clothes perfectly first is going too far. Seriously, just leave them on the ground, ********, then take care of your shoes and clothes. Nothing is going to get ruined in the time it takes you have to ********.

My sex will be ruined because there is no peace of mind.
 

ChicagoMediaMan

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Originally Posted by patrickBOOTH
My sex will be ruined because there is no peace of mind.

Please get help.
 

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In before DT.
 

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Originally Posted by patrickBOOTH
I think this is a perfect signal to send for several reasons. It shows that you take care of what you have and you get things finished that need to be done so you can focus more on her. A person who obviously spends tons of money on clothes and then wrecks it in an instinctual act of lust shows they are more balls, less brains and can't use their head to make proper desicions!
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Also, even if you rip everthing off, just the sheer amount of things that have to come off even with the littlest care exceeds the bro in a muscle shirt. It is still enough to ruin a mood.

Perfect? by telling her you value your clothes more than her (intimacy)? Surely you can wait 5 minutes after your done finishing the job to put the shoe trees in
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Originally Posted by patrickBOOTH
I am curious to know other's experiences.

Sometimes my special lady friend and I will return to my place after a night out, drinks, whatever, and we are becoming, shall we say, intimate. She would always get so get annoyed with me that I ruin the mood because I have a coat, jacket, tie, cufflinks, shoe trees and all of this stuff to take off and put proper and such. At this point she knows me well enough and thinks its "cute", but have any of you irritated your significant other because you need to put your shoe trees in and unbutton your cufflinks take off your tie, etc?


Be grateful she hasn't dumped you. Putting shoe trees before getting intimate? Please.
 

patrickBOOTH

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Originally Posted by D Yizz
Be grateful she hasn't dumped you. Putting shoe trees before getting intimate? Please.

I have a keeper (not on a necktie) she accepts me for who I am!
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Thomas

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Man, I'm glad I visit MC from time to time. Hilarity isn't just found in DT's.
 

D Yizz

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Originally Posted by patrickBOOTH
I have a keeper (not on a necktie) she accepts me for who I am!
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Yeah, for who you are.... payin' for her stuff......
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No blood pressure at all, dude. If this were true you would've been dumped years ago!
 

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