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Not quite sure what you mean by it's his place. They've been splitting the rent for the 2 or so years they've lived together, and it's only been the past couple months that his dad's been paying, because her ex couldn't come up with his share. Sorry if I wasn't clear. I'm 19, she's 21. He's 26. He was 21 dating and manipulating a 16 year old.
Get a hold of the note and get a restraining order. Don't be a tough guy. Just because he hasn't been violent before doesn't mean there won't be a first time.
Given the circumstances ... I'd remove myself as far as possible from all involved ... including the girl.
You sound like a codependent teenager who wants the thrill of saving a girl who's "really worth it" and "been through some hard times". Do whatever you want and maybe some day you'll grow up.
My criticism aside, the sincerity of your love is quite touching. This feels like the beginning of a classic (in the Shakespeare sense) tragic romance...
Get a hold of the note and get a restraining order. Don't be a tough guy. Just because he hasn't been violent before doesn't mean there won't be a first time.
PM the member known as GQGeek. He had a similar situation (well, he wasn't actually ********** with the girl) and I think he found that sending the boyfriend food from nice restaurants worked out swimmingly, but my memory can be hazy these days.
you need to dump her. his craziness aside, she still lives with him and it's too soon after too long of a relationship for anything good to come of this. think about why a girl would stay with a guy like that for so long. this is "don't" dating 101.
PM the member known as GQGeek. He had a similar situation (well, he wasn't actually ********** with the girl) and I think he found that sending the boyfriend food from nice restaurants worked out swimmingly, but my memory can be hazy these days.
I talked to my gf this morning, and told her to take the note with her when she went to work, so I will have it tonight when she comes over, and will be filing a police report ASAP. How does it work to get a restraining order, do I just ask when filing the report, or does it involve lawyers and such? And I am certainly not a tough guy in the sense of talking **** back and forth, I would never do that.
Not sure if you're just being facetious, but I'm as sincere as they come.
I think he found that sending the boyfriend food from nice restaurants worked out swimmingly.
While my logical side pretty much agrees with you, it has progressed past that point and I can't just up and leave. Anyways, this thread wasn't asking for relationship advice, as I'm well aware that common sense and logic should dictate that I GTFO. However, as mentioned, I'm in love with this girl, and I know we'll be together for a long time. Perhaps it's the dumb teenager in me (inb4 someone bolds and +1's that), but I'm willing to put up with the baggage because she's more than worth it. I created this thread to ask for advice as to what I should do in the case her boyfriend tries to confront/attack me at work.