deranged
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Thanks for all the support guys.
to update the story.
she took another test today and it came back positive again. she took a picture of it on her phone and sent me the picture. she is definitely pregnant. There is no doubt about it.
Now my option is to choose the strategy i will use to try to convince her to get rid of it.
She's a little asian girl, 5'3, 86lbs. I think even if she decides to go on, chances of her having a miscarriage is very high. If all else fails, that might be my saving grace.
I laid it out for her this morning via a cost benefit analysis.
Costs:
1. kills career
2. very expensive - diapers, childcare, formula, school, etc
3. time consuming - no time to study or go out
4. hurts her chances of finding someone else in the future - i made it clear i'm not going to be with her either way. She's going to have a hard time on finding someone who is willing to date a girl with a kid.
5. weight gain - she's really self conscious about weight.
6. giving birth will hurt - pushing out a 10lb baby is not pleasant.
7. i will be here for her only if she gets an abortion - does this make me an asshole? i guess i can live with being an ass.
benefits:
1. she has this little thing she can play with which constantly reminds her of a mistake in her life.
Any other points I should raise?
I've been researching medical abortions which is just 2 pills that makes her have a miscarriage. It sounds pretty good. take a couple of pills and cramp up and bleed for 5-8 hours. Spotting for 2-3 weeks afterwards. No side effects.
She said she wants to think it over for a week or so. should i rush her or just give her time? university educated girls should have the brains to figure out that she should get rid of it right???
i'm so ******* stressed. my parents would whip ******. they already paid the deposit for gradschool...
to update the story.
she took another test today and it came back positive again. she took a picture of it on her phone and sent me the picture. she is definitely pregnant. There is no doubt about it.
Now my option is to choose the strategy i will use to try to convince her to get rid of it.
She's a little asian girl, 5'3, 86lbs. I think even if she decides to go on, chances of her having a miscarriage is very high. If all else fails, that might be my saving grace.
I laid it out for her this morning via a cost benefit analysis.
Costs:
1. kills career
2. very expensive - diapers, childcare, formula, school, etc
3. time consuming - no time to study or go out
4. hurts her chances of finding someone else in the future - i made it clear i'm not going to be with her either way. She's going to have a hard time on finding someone who is willing to date a girl with a kid.
5. weight gain - she's really self conscious about weight.
6. giving birth will hurt - pushing out a 10lb baby is not pleasant.
7. i will be here for her only if she gets an abortion - does this make me an asshole? i guess i can live with being an ass.
benefits:
1. she has this little thing she can play with which constantly reminds her of a mistake in her life.
Any other points I should raise?
I've been researching medical abortions which is just 2 pills that makes her have a miscarriage. It sounds pretty good. take a couple of pills and cramp up and bleed for 5-8 hours. Spotting for 2-3 weeks afterwards. No side effects.
She said she wants to think it over for a week or so. should i rush her or just give her time? university educated girls should have the brains to figure out that she should get rid of it right???
i'm so ******* stressed. my parents would whip ******. they already paid the deposit for gradschool...