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I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

zubin

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would you break up with your gf if you didnt have another girl on deck? hmm
 

cheessus

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+1 me to list...
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Flambeur

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Originally Posted by zubin
would you break up with your gf if you didnt have another girl on deck? hmm

Yes, this was in no way a result of that, totally different. Things would actually be easier if things remained as they were. As bad as it sounds, I have a ******* waiting list that I (practically) never take advantage of.
 

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hope I won't be posting in this thread again
 

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Originally Posted by CaptCub2009
I am sorry to hear you've broken up with your GF, I did the same with mine 5 years ago. And let me tell you it was a bloody good day that I did it, She was a user & she said that she didn't love me I was that pissed off with her I told her to sling her hook.

So i've been single for 5 years now but I do feel lonely at times

Kindest Regards

Captaincubbio2009


lol,this is funny
 

zissou

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Originally Posted by Eason
hope I won't be posting in this thread again

Is this your way of telling us you've gone gay?

I ran into my most recent ex at the Gardener's Market on Saturday (just one of a few exes that I can potentially run into there), and she made a point of saying hi and asking how I was before I noticed her. I thought this was a good sign, because for all I knew, she hated my guts. I wanted to stop and chat with her, but didn't. So, I later sent her a message and it turns out she still hates my guts, but was just being polite. *sigh* I guess I should be thankful that she was at least polite.
 

Flambeur

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The fact that I don't really care that much is bothering me a little bit.
 

mkarim

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Originally Posted by m@T
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It had to be done.

She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

It's still sad though.


+1.

I am also in the same situation. For us, it's been only 3 months...
 

constant struggle

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Originally Posted by Flambeur
The fact that I don't really care that much is bothering me a little bit.
Shouldn't when you don't care its when you know it was not meant to be and you are already over it
 

Matt

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meh, I always fluctuate when I have been through a breakup. One minute I don't care, the next I am a mess.....
 

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In my experiences, those feelings are also impacted by how the other person is doing.

I didn't really care by time my longest relationship ended, but then I was a wreck when she started dating someone a few months later.
 

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Originally Posted by APK
In my experiences, those feelings are also impacted by how the other person is doing. I didn't really care by time my longest relationship ended, but then I was a wreck when she started dating someone a few months later.
I've never understood that or rules governing the amount of time you have to wait before you jump back in the shark infested waters. Do we expect the women to sit around and not get laid? If anything, I'd expect that seeing the other person moving on would galvanize you into getting your **** together and finding someone better.
 

Prada_Ferragamo

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Is there a thread for my gf broke up with me? If not, I am in this one. She broke it off with me just recently after 3 years. Sigh....
 

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