Have a drink (although I strongly disagree with getting black out drunk, it sucks), put on a decent outfit, walk up to a pretty girl confidently, say hello and take it from there.
Why do people always gloss over this part?
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Have a drink (although I strongly disagree with getting black out drunk, it sucks), put on a decent outfit, walk up to a pretty girl confidently, say hello and take it from there.
Why do people always gloss over this part?
Why do people always gloss over this part?
I think the prior two posts hit it on the head...if she tells you to screw off, walk away with a smile and don't let it get you down. If she wants to chat the subject doesn't really matter...you aren't going to discuss you innermost feelings or admit your most sensitive secrets day one. Talk about a class, your favorite off campus restaurant, outside interests (norma stuff like music...if a chick likes sports, great, but thats not normally the first thing out of my mouth). The most important thing is making that first leap.
Ask questions and let her answer and she'll think you're the best conversationalist she's ever met.
Well I am not going, nor have ever gone to college, so those aren't exactly available topics of conversation for me. It was never my intention to hijack this thread, I just empathize quite a bit with the OP.
says no to what?Anyway, with only a few years on these kids, I seriously considered walking over to the girls are just dominating...playing the lawyer card, talking about my awesome apartment, all the great bars I know. These were girls that as little as 4 years ago I could not even say "hi" too. The point is, you are all young and inexperienced in college. It is so much better to make your mistakes now as opposed to people like me, and many others on SF, who did not come out of our shells until later in life. Half of the imbeciles that win up with the hot chicks do so simply because they have the confidence to initiate a conversation. Have a drink (although I strongly disagree with getting black out drunk, it sucks), put on a decent outfit, walk up to a pretty girl confidently, say hello and take it from there. If she says no...who cares! Its college...there are plenty more, and if I recall correctly, a severe shortage of decent guys.
On another note before you approach you must: wear a purple outfit, neg the target using push-pull, and in the first 5 minutes mention that you are gay (it won't matter when they like you)
OP: ever think you just suck at life? Maybe you should find a "life coach."