EL72
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Thanks povar - much appreciated
On another note, quick show of hands: which of you guys had to do sleep training? What method did you use and at what age did you do it? One of our boys doesn't need it and sleeps through the night now (with an occasional 2 min wake-up to get his pacifier), but the other still cries every two hours and wants to be fed (although it is clear he does not need it).
Wife needs to go back to work in 10 days and we'd like to sleep train him and everyone recommends crying it out / Ferber - we're just not sure whether 3.5 months is too young for that stuff. It's also
Sleep training is difficult but most often the right thing to do. 3.5 months is a bit young though imo - especially if he's a twin and perhaps smaller than the average 3.5 mo old. Also depends on whether he's bottle or breast fed. We started with my son waaaay too late (like 9 mos but he was exclusively breast fed) and paid the price. It usually takes less than a week, albeit a painful one. The first night he cried virtually the entire night. The second night for 1-2hrs; the 3rd night for like 20-30 min and by the 4th night he barely cried at all. My daughters were much easier and were sleeping through the night early on.
I think four months is where you can start letting them cry i.e. they should feed enough that they can last through the night without feeding again. That said, every child is different and you should get your pediatrician's advice imo.
The most important thing is consistency with training. You can undo weeks of training by giving in one night. I can recommend this book we used, which was very helpful (better than Ferber imo). http://www.amazon.com/Healthy-Sleep-.../dp/0449004023