username79
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In that regard it is just a numbers game about plucking up the courage. You could make a point that we should all have learned that **** growing up, and you are probably right, but at the same time, we all know the feeling.
I cannot go up to a woman and initiate a conversation with her at random. It doesn't make a difference if she is 500 lbs and using three bar stools. Still cannot do it. It induces a mind blowing amount of fear and anxiety in me -- even if I am already drunk. Usually when I go to a bar with friends a girl will walk over and start talking to me, which helps break the ice. I am fine in pretty much all other social situations.