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I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

mafoofan Jr.

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Aren't most Vietnamese buddhists anyhow?

Originally Posted by whnay.
I like your style m@t, right before Christmas so you don't have to unload on a gift.
 

globetrotter

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sorry to hear that. It can't be easy. good luck.
 

Matt

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thanks guys. Was a strange morning...have been through my share of breakups, and mostly feel relief afterwards. This one I am feeling really nostalgic and everywhere-i-turn about it.

Still, I know I did the right thing, just gonna take some time for the weirdness to subside.
 

kwilkinson

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Originally Posted by m@T
Still, I know I did the right thing, just gonna take some time for the weirdness to subside.
If you find yourself in Chicago, I'll help to drown your sorrows in a bottle of scotch.
 

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Originally Posted by whnay.
I like your style m@t, right before Christmas so you don't have to unload on a gift.

Small timer.

Originally Posted by VKK3450
While any breakup sucks, I think you are the kinda guy to have made a solid decision on this.

Originally Posted by m@T
Still, I know I did the right thing

+1 and good to hear.
 

Connemara

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Originally Posted by kwilkinson
If you find yourself in Chicago, I'll help to drown your sorrows in a bottle of scotch.
Wow kwilk, we didn't know you're in Chicago. Thanks for reminding us one more time.
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Matt

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get outta my mopin thread.

Apologise both of you to me and to each other before I grossly abuse my powers in my frail state and time you both out.

(I feel so much better now)
 

manouche

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Originally Posted by m@T
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It had to be done.

She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

It's still sad though.


Now youcan live your gayness freely !
 

BYucko

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That sucks man.

It's always weird when you break it off with someone who you've been talking to most days of the week, who you've told everything to, shared everything with, and now you guys can't talk or it'll be weird.
 

West24

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so how long until you run into her and we have another crazy ex gf story?
 

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No offense but I don't understand that "we weren't getting anywhere" thing, in the long term no one is getting anywhere except a casket/urn. If you got out because you weren't happy/comfortable with something that's fine but vague notions of the future don't mean **** unless they materialize (say you want kids and she doesn't and it's tearing your couple apart). Still you have my sympathy, these situations are a weight to carry for a while.
 

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Originally Posted by West24
so how long until you run into her and we have another crazy ex gf story?

Nah, she is very cool. Not the sort of volatile element with whom I would normally associate.

Incidentally I ran into crazy ex #2 on Friday night. She hates me.

Originally Posted by Fuuma
No offense but I don't understand that "we weren't getting anywhere" thing, in the long term no one is getting anywhere except a casket/urn. If you got out because you weren't happy/comfortable with something that's fine but vague notions of the future don't mean **** unless they materialize (say you want kids and she doesn't and it's tearing your couple apart). Still you have my sympathy, these situations are a weight to carry for a while.

Actually I think we both want the married n kids n things thing...just not with each other.
 

Tokyo Slim

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Best of luck to you man.

I'm still... not right... after my last one. I hope what little control you had over the situation helps you heal.
 

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