You have a red and white gingham check suit?? The fashion police should have hauled you away and saved you from the awkwardness.
My most awkward meal, by far, was lunch with my now ex-wife when I told her it was time for us to get a divorce. We were at a restaurant that I frequent often, but I don't remember what I ordered or how much I ate (I'm sure it wasn't much). I remember only key parts of the conversation....marriage counseling isn't working; we're stuck in the same ruts; it's best for both of us and for your daughters; etc. It was a nasty experience, but in the long run, the start of a beneficial process for me.
Do I "win" the thread?
No. You're probably just one of many in this thead that's been divorced. Without details, there is nothig that sets you apart!