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Your experience losing the Virginity

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by SC Widders, Jan 20, 2010.

  1. zalb916

    zalb916 Senior member

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    You can practice putting a condom on, but you can't really practice taking it off when you're pulling out of a girl. You need to hold the base of the condom in place, or it can come off while you're pulling out. Sex is enjoyed when you are stressing about things. Thinking you've impregnated a chick makes you stress.
     
  2. makker

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    I like this thread. Its great to know what sex feels like since I'm most probably going to live in celibacy.. not at my own will though.
     
  3. Davidko19

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    I like this thread. Its great to know what sex feels like since I'm most probably going to live in celibacy.. not at my own will though.

    [​IMG]
     
  4. acidboy

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    I like this thread. Its great to know what sex feels like since I'm most probably going to live in celibacy.. not at my own will though.

    when did they cut it off?
     
  5. LabelKing

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    El Gay, keep the story about the first time you sodomized another man to yourself.
    That sodomy sounds like a lot of work--I'll leave that job to you.
     
  6. Ibrock

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    My advice: be prepared mentally for things to not go the way you think they will... I was all ready with every strategy in mind to keep myself from blowing it early and when the time came we went for an hour before I gave up trying to finish and she started feeling guilty that I wasn't enjoying things.
     
  7. msza

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    My advice: be prepared mentally for things to not go the way you think they will... I was all ready with every strategy in mind to keep myself from blowing it early and when the time came we went for an hour before I gave up trying to finish and she started feeling guilty that I wasn't enjoying things.

    True. I didnt blow the wad my first 2 times. I just kinda pretended that I did and it was all good. The important thing is to just roll with it. The worst is being all anxious and weird about things.
     
  8. Eccentric

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    My advice? Jerk off. A lot. I mean a whole lot. Prior to losing it, I followed this advice, and the result was that I am the only person I know who had a good first time. It lasted about ten to fifteen minutes.

    Also, don't have a plan. Anything artificial will distract you. Just go with the occasion and what feels right for both of you. The first time doesn't have to suck.
     
  9. Jumbie

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    Watch American Pie. [​IMG]

    ***

    I lost my virginity to some almost random chick. I knew her but it was basically a quick fling and I was so happy to be having sex (I was fairly young at the time) that I blew quickly and I'm sure it sucked huge for her. In fact, I later found out that she'd told a couple people that the sex wasn't great but I had a magic tongue.

    I think my suckage kind of continued with the next two chicks I slept with after that (again, both short term) until I had a steady girlfriend for a while who I got more regular "practice" with and who was willing to experiment with me and, most importantly, we established a rapport so I could get some feedback on what was working and what I thought was working but really was not. Of course, that's going to differ for every woman. Well, a few things will remain standard that they will all enjoy.

    To this day, I sometimes wish I could go back and have sex with those women who I sucked with and show them what I've learned with time and experience but that's just to soothe my ego. The third girl I slept with was my friend's friend who was visiting her from the UK for the summer and we had a one-night stand. I'm still friends with her to this day (my friend, not the chick I slept with) and I sometimes wonder if her friend told her how awful it was since I really didn't know what I was doing at the time other than to stick it in there and pump for a few minutes. Well, I did know to get her warmed up a bit first .

    My advice to you is not to sweat it. She's your girl and knows you're a virgin. She shouldn't really be expecting too much and you'll have lots of time to get better at it with her and that's where the fun will be. [​IMG]
     
  10. hws

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    How's it going everyone... So I know that this is a stupid thread, however I'm just trying to get a general idea of what to expect. My girlfriend has been wanting to have sex with me for a while, but with me being the inexperianced one (the virgin), I've put it off because I don't know what to do or what to expect for my first time. My question to you all, especially the guys who lost their virginity to someone with experiance: 1. How long does it generally last? 2. Did you have any idea of what you were doing? 3. What are some techniqes you would recommend for the most pleasurable experiance possible for both people? Please share stories if you are willing, I just don't want to go into this thing head first without gathering information from guys who are more knowledgeable. Thanks
    1) This depend how easily you are excite, also depend the degree she is orgasmic! If she not like, if you cannot to give her plaisir, maybe she will to put you out from the room immediately! 2) Yes 3) Is more good to be betrunken, you can to use "French tickler;" if you lip the pussy you can to go head first! If you are fortunate maybe she will to lip your pÃ[​IMG]nis!
     
  11. mr. burns

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    1) This depend how easily you are excite, also depend the degree she is orgasmic! If she not like, if you cannot to give her plaisir, maybe she will to put you out from the room immediately!

    2) Yes

    3) Is more good to be betrunken, you can to use "French tickler;" if you lip the pussy you can to go head first! If you are fortunate maybe she will to lip your pÃ[​IMG]nis!


    [​IMG]
     
  12. GQgeek

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    Watch American Pie. [​IMG]

    ***

    I lost my virginity to some almost random chick. I knew her but it was basically a quick fling and I was so happy to be having sex (I was fairly young at the time) that I blew quickly and I'm sure it sucked huge for her. In fact, I later found out that she'd told a couple people that the sex wasn't great but I had a magic tongue.

    I think my suckage kind of continued with the next two chicks I slept with after that (again, both short term) until I had a steady girlfriend for a while who I got more regular "practice" with and who was willing to experiment with me and, most importantly, we established a rapport so I could get some feedback on what was working and what I thought was working but really was not. Of course, that's going to differ for every woman. Well, a few things will remain standard that they will all enjoy.

    To this day, I sometimes wish I could go back and have sex with those women who I sucked with and show them what I've learned with time and experience but that's just to soothe my ego. The third girl I slept with was my friend's friend who was visiting her from the UK for the summer and we had a one-night stand. I'm still friends with her to this day (my friend, not the chick I slept with) and I sometimes wonder if her friend told her how awful it was since I really didn't know what I was doing at the time other than to stick it in there and pump for a few minutes. Well, I did know to get her warmed up a bit first .

    My advice to you is not to sweat it. She's your girl and knows you're a virgin. She shouldn't really be expecting too much and you'll have lots of time to get better at it with her and that's where the fun will be. [​IMG]


    I think the magic tongue comment referred to your LIES! [​IMG]
     
  13. acidboy

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    1) This depend how easily you are excite, also depend the degree she is orgasmic! If she not like, if you cannot to give her plaisir, maybe she will to put you out from the room immediately!

    2) Yes

    3) Is more good to be betrunken, you can to use "French tickler;" if you lip the pussy you can to go head first! If you are fortunate maybe she will to lip your pÃ[​IMG]nis!


    Lip Your PÃ[​IMG]nis FTW
    [​IMG]
     
  14. chroMe

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    korean shag basket, give her a nice singapore handshake, don't forget the c_ck rings, extra lube, try some lightweight bondage, don't go too vanilla, shave each other, nipple clamp each other, for starters.
     
  15. hws

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    [​IMG]
    I have give my best advice!
    Lip Your PÃ[​IMG]nis FTW [​IMG]
    He will to be lucky if the girl make this thing for him, but then he must to lip the pussy for her!
    korean shag basket, give her a nice singapore handshake, don't forget the c_ck rings, extra lube, try some lightweight bondage, don't go too vanilla, shave each other, nipple clamp each other, for starters.
    Lubrication is not necessary for jung with pussy humid, is better no shave PÃ[​IMG]nis or pussy pubic but is better trim, for two raisons, it make PÃ[​IMG]nis to look plus grand, also libido is to increase! Little BDSM can to be good!
     
  16. Jumbie

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    I think the magic tongue comment referred to your LIES! [​IMG]

    No, it's magic and transported her to other worlds.
     
  17. TGPlastic

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    Three words: Albanian steam train.
     
  18. Huntsman

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    make sure you wear a bag. In fact, wrap your rascal two times. The last thing you want is some of your precious bodily fluids to wind up inside her because then she'll pop out a kid and your life will be over.
    Since no one caught it, I should add that wearing two condoms (well, at least at the same time and on the same member) is incredibly bad advice. A lot of people say it out of the expectation that two condoms will deaden sensation and thus allow for a longer performance, or that it makes the likelihood of pregnancy less. Neither is true. Condoms are actually fairly high-performance devices and they are not designed to tolerate the frictional shear stresses that will be imposed on them by the sliding of one condom on another -- this will generate heat while stressing the material and will make both condoms more prone to break. This is bad. ~ H
     
  19. RSS

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    It happened back in the late 1960s ... I was probably on acid. I remember not the who, what, where, why, etc.
     
  20. DNW

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    Since no one caught it, I should add that wearing two condoms (well, at least at the same time and on the same member) is incredibly bad advice. A lot of people say it out of the expectation that two condoms will deaden sensation and thus allow for a longer performance, or that it makes the likelihood of pregnancy less. Neither is true. Condoms are actually fairly high-performance devices and they are not designed to tolerate the frictional shear stresses that will be imposed on them by the sliding of one condom on another -- this will generate heat while stressing the material and will make both condoms more prone to break. This is bad. ~ H
    Good god, Hunts. We're talking about secks here. There's no quicker way to get Mr. Johnson to go limp than thinking about stress and heat transfer when he's double-wrapped. I think this might be the reason why engineering g33ks never got the poon (not you, of course [​IMG]) -- they just couldn't keep it up, thinking about thermondynamics equations and diffyQ and shit.
     

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