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Your experience losing the Virginity

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by SC Widders, Jan 20, 2010.

  1. thenanyu

    thenanyu Senior member

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    ^^ Yeah, that's pretty good. Be sure to get feedback from her on if you are going too fast, slow, hard, deep etc.. or not enough.
     
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    Bet you never imagined you'd be writing those words on the Internet.

    I've given that advice to many young lads. Just wish someone had shared it with me. [​IMG]
     
  3. CDFS

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    How's it going everyone... So I know that this is a stupid thread, however I'm just trying to get a general idea of what to expect. My girlfriend has been wanting to have sex with me for a while, but with me being the inexperianced one (the virgin), I've put it off because I don't know what to do or what to expect for my first time. My question to you all, especially the guys who lost their virginity to someone with experiance: 1. How long does it generally last? 2. Did you have any idea of what you were doing? 3. What are some techniqes you would recommend for the most pleasurable experiance possible for both people? Please share stories if you are willing, I just don't want to go into this thing head first without gathering information from guys who are more knowledgeable. Thanks
    In the hope that you are serious, I'll give some serious answers. 1: Generally it lasts as long as you will. There's no rush. Go through all the stadia: Kissing, petting, undressing, kissing again, etc. If you think of it, try it. You'll soon find out if she likes it. PRO TIP: Slow down dude, you've got all night. 2. Not so much. It doesn't have to be a star performance. She's your GF. She like likes you, right? She won't instantly leave you, so you may be able to try again. PRO TIP: I've got nothing here. 3. Cuddle afterwards. Enjoy not so much your victory on the world and your geekish friends, but enjoy the experience with HER. PRO TIP: Any failings can be redressed with self-depricating humour.
     
  4. SC Widders

    SC Widders Well-Known Member

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    Noice!

    You want some real, actual, sound advice? Jack off before the date.


    Haha, I wouldn't have imagined to hear that. I thought I'd take 2 beers and drink them before we got started.... or a shot of liquor [​IMG]

    ^^ Yeah, that's pretty good. Be sure to get feedback from her on if you are going too fast, slow, hard, deep etc.. or not enough.

    Now that does sound like some generally good feedback!

    In the hope that you are serious, I'll give some serious answers.

    1: Generally it lasts as long as you will. There's no rush. Go through all the stadia: Kissing, petting, undressing, kissing again, etc. If you think of it, try it. You'll soon find out if she likes it.

    PRO TIP: Slow down dude, you've got all night.

    2. Not so much. It doesn't have to be a star performance. She's your GF. She like likes you, right? She won't instantly leave you, so you may be able to try again.

    PRO TIP: I've got nothing here.

    3. Cuddle afterwards. Enjoy not so much your victory on the world and your geekish friends, but enjoy the experience with HER.

    PRO TIP: Any failings can be redressed with self-depricating humour.


    Wow, great advice CDFS! I'll be sure to keep these things in mind....

    More comments welcomed
     
  5. r...

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    If she's the experienced one then let her take the lead. If she knows you've got the virgeen then dont worry so much about performance. If you feel insecure, keep your socks on. Forget everything you seen in the Pr0ns, now is not the time to try and knock it like a champ, take time to enjoy it, and smile.

    PRO TIP: Never ask "Was it good for you?" afterwards.
     
  6. CrocsRock

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    I'm going to assume that she knows it's your first time, in which case you might be able to take your cues from her. That said, you may also with to take charge and spend some time on foreplay (if it's your first time, this can help get her worked up without... finishing your end of the deal too quickly). Ask her what she likes and do it. Honestly, a lot of sex just comes down to communicating what you want (christ, that sounds dorky).

    Don't worry about it too much. Just aim to give her a good time, ask her what she likes, etc. We were all virgins once.

    Also, feel free to lick the kitty. Gals do like it. And they'll generally pay you back. And do NOT spank her unless she tells you. Trust me on this.
     
  7. why

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    Damn I missed the first page. Really wanted to use the [​IMG].

    Real suggestion: just let her get on top and fuck you.
     
  8. unjung

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    My first time was also with a more experienced woman (well, 16 year old girl). It was very good. We were in luuuuuv, which also helped. [​IMG] And I didn't get off the first three times. ...I wonder how she's doing today?
    For her? Complete disappointment.
    Unlikely. She's probably young and in love.
     
  9. LabelKing

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    My first time was also with a more experienced woman (well, 16 year old girl). It was very good. We were in luuuuuv, which also helped. [​IMG] And I didn't get off the first three times.

    ...I wonder how she's doing today?



    Unlikely. She's probably young and in love.


    A rather precocious 16 year old no doubt.
     
  10. unjung

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    A rather precocious 16 year old no doubt.

    She was a fucking tramp.
     
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    Post-coital thalidomide.
     
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    She was a fucking tramp.

    You'd have to be when you're experienced at 16.
     
  13. SC Widders

    SC Widders Well-Known Member

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    If she's the experienced one then let her take the lead. If she knows you've got the virgeen then dont worry so much about performance. If you feel insecure, keep your socks on. Forget everything you seen in the Pr0ns, now is not the time to try and knock it like a champ, take time to enjoy it, and smile.

    PRO TIP: Never ask "Was it good for you?" afterwards.


    Yeah, I've already forgotten about what goes on in the porn video's! I highly doubt I would be nervous enough to ask her about how it was afterward haha. Good advice though.

    I'm going to assume that she knows it's your first time, in which case you might be able to take your cues from her. That said, you may also with to take charge and spend some time on foreplay (if it's your first time, this can help get her worked up without... finishing your end of the deal too quickly). Ask her what she likes and do it. Honestly, a lot of sex just comes down to communicating what you want (christ, that sounds dorky).

    Don't worry about it too much. Just aim to give her a good time, ask her what she likes, etc. We were all virgins once.

    Also, feel free to lick the kitty. Gals do like it. And they'll generally pay you back. And do NOT spank her unless she tells you. Trust me on this.


    Yes, she knows I'm a virgin. I was definently trying to come up with "things" to involve in before actually having sex with her, to get her sort of heated so it wouldn't be a mediocre experiance for her. I've got to work on the communication part during the actual thing which hopefully I will figure out on my own.

    Damn I missed the first page. Really wanted to use the [​IMG].

    Real suggestion: just let her get on top and fuck you.


    Ha, trust me I'm definently going to let her do that [​IMG]

    My first time was also with a more experienced woman (well, 16 year old girl). It was very good. We were in luuuuuv, which also helped. [​IMG] And I didn't get off the first three times.

    ...I wonder how she's doing today?



    Unlikely. She's probably young and in love.


    LMFAO
     
  14. ysc

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    You are over thinking this. Don't worry about it, afterwards you will wonder why you worried.

    Don't post on the internet about it, just go and do it.
     
  15. unjung

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    You'd have to be when you're experienced at 16.

    I stayed with her for a relatively long time and eventually discovered I was number 12 or so... and women tend to understate their numbers...
     
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    I stayed with her for a relatively long time and eventually discovered I was number 12 or so... and women tend to understate their numbers...

    You discovered this about the time you got a strange rash down there?
     
  17. Teacher

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    If you wear a fake mustache, you'll appear much older and, thus, more experienced. She'll be more at ease. Now, don't get anything ridiculous like a handlebar, but don't go pencil either. Think Magnum PI. Next, oil your bod. You want the muscles to be highlighted in the light and glisten. Please forego the Ax Body Spray...it will sting her eyes and mouth. Irish Spring soap is your friend.
     
  18. unjung

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    You discovered this about the time you got a strange rash down there?

    No. She contracted gonorrhea during one of our breaks, though. My own strange itch came from some other random girl on Canada Day 2004.
     
  19. Mark from Plano

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    If you wear a fake mustache, you'll appear much older and, thus, more experienced. She'll be more at ease. Now, don't get anything ridiculous like a handlebar, but don't go pencil either. Think Magnum PI. Next, oil your bod. You want the muscles to be highlighted in the light and glisten. Please forego the Ax Body Spray...it will sting her eyes and mouth. Irish Spring soap is your friend.

    Teacher has also put together an instructional video. Follow his advice exactly and watch this video if you want to fully please your woman.

    http://www.hulu.com/watch/3514/satur...ale-prostitute
     
  20. BDC2823

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    If you wear a fake mustache, you'll appear much older and, thus, more experienced. She'll be more at ease. Now, don't get anything ridiculous like a handlebar, but don't go pencil either. Think Magnum PI. Next, oil your bod. You want the muscles to be highlighted in the light and glisten. Please forego the Ax Body Spray...it will sting her eyes and mouth. Irish Spring soap is your friend.

    As a bonus, you can have her give you a mustache ride.
     

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