Waldo Jeffers
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I think there are two dimensions of tryhard
One- you’re trying to signal you’re better than everyone else
Two- you’re trying to convince yourself you’re someone other than yourself
This is why it’s received as an affront.
it’s about an inauthentic claim toward superiority
So any time you try to affect a look and don’t totally own it, you are at risk of tryhard. People don’t try to affect looks that are less cool versions of themselves
it’s a binary thing— you are either that thing you present yourself as, or you are not.
it’s about being an imposter.
I am susceptible to this. Many people fantasize about being cooler than they are.
it’s actually ok to not be cool. Being yourself is cool. If you try to force yourself into an appearance of someone else, that is tryhard
One- you’re trying to signal you’re better than everyone else
Two- you’re trying to convince yourself you’re someone other than yourself
This is why it’s received as an affront.
it’s about an inauthentic claim toward superiority
So any time you try to affect a look and don’t totally own it, you are at risk of tryhard. People don’t try to affect looks that are less cool versions of themselves
it’s a binary thing— you are either that thing you present yourself as, or you are not.
it’s about being an imposter.
I am susceptible to this. Many people fantasize about being cooler than they are.
it’s actually ok to not be cool. Being yourself is cool. If you try to force yourself into an appearance of someone else, that is tryhard