So everyone in my school has some skewed idea that Tuxedoes are meant to be worn with a vest and a tie, and that wearing anything else to prom is just unthinkable. I wanted to wear a Tux where i dont have the vest, I have a black bow tie and a golden pocket square to match my date's dress. Date's Dress. Anyone think thats a good idea, or should I go ahead and follow the norm with a golden vest, golden tie and no pocket square? Any advice would be helpful!